This was a comment in the post "Did the "Sex Positivity" movement sell women a pipe dream?" And I was requested to make it its own post:

What is sex positivity even supposed to be? That two people who've never met before can go fuck somewhere, both have fantastic mindblowing orgasmic sex with each other during that incident, and then fuck off and go live their merry little lives? Not even gay men can manage to do that without somebody getting hurt, either physically, emotionally, mentally or worse. There's always the one fuckboy who just wants to get his dick wet as much as possible and then there are all his victims who keep telling themselves that sex is a substitute for intimacy and then crying on your shoulder about it.

In order for "sex positivity" to work, both parties have to go into it in good faith. Both parties need to enter into a mutual agreement that they want to have great sex with each other and give each other orgasms and have a fantastic time. It has to be like an Uber ride, both parties want to accomplish the transaction with 5-star reviews. This does not happen in today's society with two strangers (or two people who barely know each other, or two people who don't respect each other, or two people who don't give a shit about each other, or one person who doesn't give a fuck and another person delusional enough to think this is how you get a boyfriend) having sex. Most of the time, the woman gets the shit end of the stick.

Girls and women are being told to go get fucked in order to feel empowered but they aren't being told to go have great sex and orgasms. I mean it's a no-brainer, they shouldn't have to be told this. But somehow we are in this situation, so obviously they DO need to be told this.

GIRLS, LISTEN UP. DO NOT HAVE SEX UNLESS YOUR ORGASM IS GUARANTEED AND YOU KNOW THE SEX WILL BE FANTASTIC. THE ONLY POINT OF SEX IS YOUR PLEASURE AND YOUR ORGASM. THERE IS ABSOLUTELY NO OTHER REASON TO HAVE SEX BEYOND THAT.