Insecure men are time-wasters and life ruiners. You can’t save him, sis. You can try.. and lose yourself completely. You can try to be his “peace” or take care of him, or show him you’re 1000% down for him and literally become a shell of who you used to be. Or you can block him.

I'm speaking from excruciating experience. At first, you'll think it's cute that he gets sad about small things you do. That he sends you "📷:/" and seems jealous. That he asks "why me?" It's not fucking cute. You're in for a world of hurt. You can't fix him and he WILL break you.

My ex burst into tears on our first date. He got some drinks into him and literally broke into tears. I found it endearing. I wanted to help him..hold him..fix him. When he'd literally STORM off when he was upset..I would chase him when I should've turned around and walked away.