You do not need to teach a man to treat you well and constantly put up boundaries so he 'gets it.' It is exhausting. Just leave.

chateauduchat · 2020-06-17T15:27:29+00:00

Exactly. I was asked on a first date for a picnic by a recent man. Before our date, he later texted me to “hang out” at his house late at night. I called him out on it and blocked that scrote.

SayNad · 2020-06-17T16:26:05+00:00

If you have to teach someone about your boundaries, chances are that person will make a game on how far he can push it.

goatismycopilot · 2020-06-17T16:37:27+00:00

The biggest thing I notice is when I say no I am not doing that I am doing this alternative thing with no further explanation men 8n particular go batshit crazy even in non romantic situations. I have had more than once a male acquaintance in a group situation try and alter an already agreed upon planned activity and when I said no I am doing X everybody can do what they want but this is my plan like you would have thought I said I was voting for Satan for Governor.

redfarmmmmm · 2020-06-17T17:04:24+00:00

The thing is guys compartmentalize. I did tinder experiment and guys NEVER suggest hangout or come over dates to women they think out of their league or more in higher tier.

Why? Because they dont want to ruin the chance of getting to know her with hangout type of dates.

Don’t try to teach any men anything. Just ghost them.

thedevinefemme · 2020-06-18T01:38:40+00:00

It’s true. He’s a good person or he isn’t.

Title	You do not need to teach a man to treat you well and constantly put up boundaries so he 'gets it.' It is exhausting. Just leave.
Author	savannahm89
Upvotes	265
Comments	11
Date	June 17, 2020 12:53 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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