What exactly do whamen mean when they tell "you are boring"

oskajoerg · 2020-06-13T13:50:52+00:00

You don’t randomly say “let’s grab a drink Wednesday evening”, as that would affect your career, diet and fitness negatively; when girls says you are boring, what they mean is that you are predictable

Ody_ssey · 2020-06-13T15:23:35+00:00

"Your boundaries are making it very hard for us to take benefits from our conditional friendship" which makes you boring.

Vobat · 2020-06-13T13:49:53+00:00

Not doing what your told, not taking care of her needs, not...basicly doing anything that is for you and not her. 1 hour a day at the gym 3 tines a week and trust 3 hours you aren't being interesting to her.

simpleguychilling · 2020-06-13T14:58:31+00:00

Some guys not all will try to appease her bc she is showing them attention even though it’s an insult. The white knight comes out strong when this goes down. He will show her that “no” I am not boring and let me show you. See and avoid brother.

WanderlustYouth · 2020-06-13T15:42:18+00:00

Boring means you aren't some bad boy who will cause drama, for women being content isn't possible, so any semblance of a man who lives a stable life is deemed "boring" to them

rocko20002 · 2020-06-13T15:53:17+00:00

That's a metaphor for "you're stingy"

BlackPilledYekke · 2020-06-13T14:09:40+00:00

Ghost them.

bitlingr · 2020-06-13T14:46:15+00:00

It might be the way you talk. Charisma is a real thing.

astuteglute · 2020-06-13T19:54:45+00:00

You're emotionally sound. No excitement filled drama

CoinSwapTrader · 2020-06-13T15:47:03+00:00

she wants a clown dog horse ninja sex machine who can entertain her.....anything less than constant tingles is boring....A psychopath is ALWAYS bored and does crazy things in pursuit of adrenaline, to simply avoid being bored...

Barmacist · 2020-06-13T16:41:49+00:00

It means you don't have any drugs "to share."

Terror-Error · 2020-06-13T17:05:43+00:00

When they say "you are boring" what they mean is "you're not entertaining me". You've failed in your role as clown and God knows women cannot entertain themselves. This is their way of saying that they are boring and if you don't entertain them then they will attempt to insult you or, if the lack of entertainment persists, leave you.

ReimsHistoriae · 2020-06-13T17:37:22+00:00

Having a stable job, that means you can't party or lay around all day. Not doing drugs or being a raging alcoholic, because not being in an altered state of consciousness is boring. Not being a millionaire, because you actually have to be careful with your money instead of burning it all on shiny crap. Also, caring too much about her opinions and never disagreeing with her. Not being menacing or someone they could be afraid of. Liking things like books, watching sports and playing videogames, because they distract you from her.

nitro-666 · 2020-06-13T18:29:25+00:00

It just means you are not bringing drama. And she craves drama like a junkie.

AWALT, buy those drama queens are the most damaged women all around. Not even fall into their game, just say very calmly "yeah, you're probably right" and walk away. Bullet dodged.

2020-06-13T21:50:32+00:00

I've never had that myself, but it means it's time to find a new girl. One who has not had her mind poisoned by the stupidity of Sex in the City.

KneeDeepThought · 2020-06-13T21:53:20+00:00

You have principles and rules you live by, which is kryptonite to a woman who's addicted to the constant dopamine hit of unstable relationships. If you're not constantly breaking the law, risking your life for her entertainment, and threatening to beat her and fuck her friends, she doesn't get her "fix" of drama dopamine and labels you boring instead of figuring out she's chasing a dragon that's going to get her killed.

Title	What exactly do whamen mean when they tell "you are boring"
Author	thesuperanonguy
Upvotes	20
Comments	32
Date	June 13, 2020 1:44 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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