Review my strategy?

miss_throwaway2341 · 2020-06-01T17:47:52+00:00

No because you have convinced yourself to let yourself be used by men and their ideas of sex. you have been tricked into thinking this way by society and media. Once you actually start going deep withing yourself and finding out that

we as women are meant to protect our bodies from stds, rape, pornsick lvms and save it for the person who is going to treat us as queens.
You dont need sex to be happy.

You will actually start to be happier within yourself and not end up feeling emotionally drained without anything to show for it.

Madholley · 2020-06-01T16:24:53+00:00

No. Read the handbook! FDS is about doing the work yourself.

honeybeeroll · 2020-06-02T00:15:57+00:00

This strategy isn't FDS aligned when it comes to men. The reality is men don't respect you if you have casual sex with them before you're serious. They won't see you as real relationship material, so they're not going to be putting that effort in to prove to you they want to be serious. I can't speak for bi women of course and how they'll see you, but for men, definitely not.

If you want a relationship, you have to date with that in mind and act accordingly.

Also don't tell any man about your past hook up history. That's the FDS advice but also seeing this in action: I just read today on an advice sub, this guy's gf told him a lot in the beginning she wanted to go slow and develop a real connection first. So they did. Some time after they started having sex, she told him about her hook up culture past. He specifically asked her how quickly she slept with guys. He said on the post he felt "cheapened" bc she didn't have sex with him earlier. His clearly felt entitled to sex and you could tell he thinks less of her bc she slept with quite a few people in the past.

TheOGJammies · 2020-06-02T15:34:27+00:00

FDS is about risk vs reward. Sleeping with a bunch of random men is high risk and low reward, this is not FDS strategy.

jayda92 · 2020-06-01T22:29:30+00:00

The thing is that you consider yourself a promiscuous woman, and you're expecting them to respect you: that they need to chase you, to make you give up your promiscuity. That's like drinking poison and expecting the other one to die.

If you want to be respected, you should be respecting yourself and your body first and foremost.

There is nothing wrong with having sex soon. But don't expect that a committed relationship is gonna come off from that, and even if it does: it will be stuck in the back of your head. And if that's not enough for you; he's never EVER gonna forget you gave it up to him so soon... A HVM isn't searching for a ho, a housewife or a cool girl. They are looking for their counterpart, their equal. That's HV behavior.

*Truth be told. I needed one FWB while I was vetting the scrotation. I seriously can't think correctly when my brain is having sexy fun time and clouding my judgement. Just be a lady about it and don't lie OR tell anything until commitment is established and even then... It's better to STFU. Speaking is silver, silence is gold.

Title	Review my strategy?
Author	throwmeawaypleaseppl
Upvotes	0
Comments	13
Date	June 1, 2020 1:04 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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