Am I being cucked?

nicyhasreddit · 2018-12-06T14:56:02+00:00

The fact you say you're being cucked implies you claim her as your own.

A cuck is someone whose LTR is fucking someone else.

She's not your LTR. You're not a cuck, just someone who needs to be checked.

TravelingShitLord · 2018-12-06T15:31:39+00:00

Not even a plate yet and you care this much? Just marry her and buy her shit already.

iampigeons · 2018-12-06T15:06:23+00:00

You keep saying you don't care, yet you posted this here.

MRPFuckMe1 · 2018-12-06T14:43:39+00:00

She’s probably saying the same shit about you to the other guy. Haha! Hey, these chicks are running game too—can’t hold it against ‘em.

Herdsengineers · 2018-12-06T15:08:58+00:00

When someone's actions and words tell a different story, believe what their actions say and not their words. She undermines other guy, but is going out with him anyway. Says his weed is an issue, but your's isnt. She's giving all kinds of red flags, and there's no way to know the real truth of her. So ask yourself this - is she worth figuring it out? Does figuring her out result in resolving her red flags and make her a higher quality character individual? or does it just refine the red flags and leave her as a low character individual? (Hint - it's the second answer).

Maybe it would be better for you to just move on, not worry about figuring out the details of how she is low character, and put your energy into finding a better character girl. One way, you end up with a low character girl, the other way you end up with better. Just food for thought, dude.

CainPrice · 2018-12-06T15:12:57+00:00

She's not your girlfriend. Some's some girl you met on Tinder that you're hoping to have casual sex with, right?

You're fucking other women. She's fucking other guys.

Meet her Saturday, enjoy your drinks, escalate, take her home, be sure to wear a condom. The fact that you know she's a casual sex girl, and she's 100% open about it should help you with your confidence when you meet her. No need to be afraid to escalate for fear that she's not the kind of girl who goes home with guys from Tinder.

The absolute worst thing you could do is demonstrate to her that you are not part of the casual sex culture and that you don't know how it works by getting weird about the fact that she's seeing other people. That will keep her, and every single girl like her (including the ones who don't tell you about the other guys) from having sex with you.

For example, depending on how your banter with her had been going, if a girl messaged me, "So...full disclosure. I'm going out with this other guy Thursday night", my response might be "I was going to bring condoms Saturday anyway ;)"

DVidojkovic · 2018-12-06T15:49:43+00:00

She told me this guy smokes weed every day so she was worried about that.

>"HE SMOKES WEED? EVERYDAY? He's a fucking lunatic!!!!!!!!!!

i view this as a shit test, not as you being cucked. she's checking if ur gonna be confident and say "oh have fun" and go out with a plan b that you shouldve had before in your head. idgaf mentality+plan b

ChadTheWaiter100 · 2018-12-06T14:59:11+00:00

She is telling you she doesn’t think it’s gonna go well but she’s going anyway. Does someone have a pistol to her head forceing her to go? Or does she go on her own choice? Rhetorical questions.

q31 · 2018-12-06T14:58:54+00:00

You idiots using cuck like it's something that just happens to you is fucking annoying.

You have to enjoy it to be a actual cuck. You have to set out to have it happen to you.

civilizedfrog · 2018-12-06T16:54:48+00:00

She is not in relationship with you. So not getting cucked.

However, if she ends up going with the pot smoking loser, it means that your smv is lower than that loser.

DadOnDabs · 2018-12-06T20:31:52+00:00

Had this happen once. Here's how the convo went.

Me - let's get drinks tonight

Her - I have a date

Me - wanna make a bet?

Her - sure

Me - I bet this guy is so boring you'll text me half way through the date

Her - no he seems nice

Me - have fun. Loser buys drinks

She texted me halfway through the date ;)

ArdAtak · 2018-12-06T20:42:34+00:00

You haven't even met this girl so no, you're not being cucked ... YET.

See her once, if she still wants to see other guys then you have to decide if it's something you can tolerate or not.

Title	Am I being cucked?
Author	420GrazeitRabbit
Upvotes	2
Comments	15
Date	December 6, 2018 2:38 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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