Thoughts on this?

Chadster113 · 2020-06-27T20:42:29+00:00

“Our romantic date”..... don’t be a faggot. No guy is ever this on the nose

aegeaorgnqergerh · 2020-06-27T19:21:09+00:00

Is this everything in the conversation? Anything before or after? Very hard to tell without context.

What does jump out though, is that it's a bit....fedora-ish. If you get what I mean. You're very close to a "m'lady" in parts there.

I mean, the principle is fine, just the wording is off. If you're good looking, it probably won't be an issue, but if you were a "meh, not hot but we'll see what he's like" swipe at her end, you've probably lost that one.

Has there been anything since?

teka7 · 2020-06-27T20:50:34+00:00

This reads so cringy

MattyAnon · 2020-06-27T20:14:44+00:00

You showed too much about the destination (neck kisses / chemistry). Then adding "if all goes well, we can see what happens" looks like you're trying to drive it that way.

It's not terrible, but it's not leaving her with many questions about your intent. Better is "Meet up, maybe tease you a bit, see if it goes anywhere".

The difference is subtle, but it's about your expectations and where you're trying to go. It's about not committing too much before she does.

But it basically looked fine, until "I prefer snap". This contrasts with "looking for a FWB", but in combination with "looking for some attention" I think we can see where this is going.

GreatGoldSphinx · 2020-06-27T21:21:53+00:00

Carnage, but don't fret. We've all been there.

The key is to make her qualify herself to you. By immediately telling her she is your type, you destroyed any chance of laying her.

This is the most alarming thing: "After working from home for 4 months I needed some attention". EJECT and don't be a time-ho. 99% of Tinderellas are there for validation. Weed them out fast.

thebravefool2019 · 2020-06-28T05:31:43+00:00

You may have a small window to get the date you're looking for (if that's what you want) but look at it like this, you may be 1 of dozens of guys she's done this to. If she doesn't bite on the offer of a date or you guys don't smash then i'd call it a loss, unfollow her, and move onto the next one.

HurricaneHugues · 2020-06-28T12:57:41+00:00

"Weird. Im seeing a bunch of words on my screen but no numbers. i think my phones bugging. Send again"

Send that

posturethrowaway6969 · 2020-06-27T19:13:29+00:00

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FirstName_LastName4 · 2020-06-27T19:43:13+00:00

Humble brag much?

You got the number and She seems interested mate, what do you think people here will add?

Title	Thoughts on this?
Author	posturethrowaway6969
Upvotes	0
Comments	21
Date	June 27, 2020 7:04 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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