I've always found that bitchy generally-disinterested-in-life attitude coming from girls towards me a HUGE turnoff. Whenever a girl does it regardless of her looks or her position, I get turned off immediately and eject from the situation ASAP. And this is not only with girls I'm interested in sexually, but also at work, in uni and all sorts of places.
It just bothers me so fucking much to be in a good mood and talk to a girl with the best intentions and you're met with that defensive and rude attitude, even their shittests and jokes are not fun, and this has happened mostly with models.
I'm by no means an attractive guy, maybe a 6.5 on my best day, but I can confidently say that my game is on point, and I get laid whenever I feel the need to, mostly with 6-7 girls. So dodging shittests, having normal banter with girls, even sometimes handling bad jokes from other people has never been an issue so I think my frame is okay...or is it?
So the question is: am I still soft for not being able to handle a chick with a resting bitch face and depressing attitude? Or are they just not interested in me?
How do you deal with girls who behave the way I described above? They usually get on my nerves and I get this "I'm superior to you" vibe probably because of all the attention they get, and instead of trying I just back off.
I've always considered such behaviour to be below my standards so I don't bother with girls who don't show respect and a little human decency, but at the same time I can't help but think that it's preventing me from going further with my game and I really don't know how to handle it besides getting pissed and cutting the interaction.
Thanks in advance.
Edit: examples
A girl I met on tinder who looked like a model. We texted back and forth a few times and then I asked her if she'd be interested in having a photoshoot for free (I'm not a good photographer, I run a production company so I have all the gear I need), she said she modelled clothing before but never tried "boring regular" portraits. This made me pissed and unmatched with her on the spot.
Another girl at work I bantered with a few times who make sure to always take every joke I say seriously and tease me in the most annoying way possible. You know when you can't tell whether someone is joking or seriously angry? That's how she usually jokes. And again, it pisses me off. Once I saw her watching a video on Java script and I offered her my help. She said, "Well, you don't have to show off"
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