Going on a date with a potential gold digger.

scanfan2022 · 2018-12-11T07:53:02+00:00

One date can't hurt. It's not like you're going to a nightclub where there is potential to spend quite a bit of money.

Get to know her a bit and look for red flags.

holmesrjk · 2018-12-11T08:33:13+00:00

A.) It's a common misconception if the asians who asks you about your job and work to be a gold digger because that's how they decide the worth of a man in the social hierarchy.

B.) If you want to avoid it altogether go to a low key place,perhaps more casual of sorts. Like a takeaway coffee and have that while a walk in a park or the one's where I'm really feeling this is more like a gold digger I do this : I go on a bike (my bicycle ) after my gym to meet her,perhaps with a slice or two of pizza to meet her and walk around and bring em home.

Johnnybeachboy · 2018-12-11T07:20:24+00:00

I wouldn't even bother going out with her in the first place. I don't need women like that in my life.

Bruchibre · 2018-12-11T10:23:20+00:00

It’s ok to pay her a cafe, show abundance. (And share a photo of her body: Chinese with big boobs)

Rkingpin · 2018-12-11T10:45:15+00:00

if I dragged then out on the first date

Not a good mindset. She should be excited to see you. Or aren't you the prize?

Johnnadawearsglasses · 2018-12-11T14:30:58+00:00

That doesn’t mean she’s a gold digger. Chinese are much more upfront about things than Americans. If you told her those questions were rude she likely wouldn’t even know what you mean. I mean of course you want a smart man who can provide and have tall healthy children. It’s just that she said it and other women don’t. I wouldn’t hold it against her. Gaming Chinese girls though is different.

masterpiece00 · 2018-12-11T12:04:20+00:00

She's of Chinese descent

Eject.

Title	Going on a date with a potential gold digger.
Author	stephencurrymyass
Upvotes	8
Comments	20
Date	December 11, 2018 7:19 AM UTC (7 years ago)
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