I’ve been seeing a man for almost 2 months, but because of covid, we’ve only been on 4 dates. All were dinner dates at the type of places to which I’m accustomed and he paid. He’s really been a perfect gentleman, but it’s still early on and I’m keeping my heart guarded.

Exclusivity has been established but only in the last week. We have only kissed thus far and modestly. I’m really, really trying to follow the handbook to establish a the type of dynamic I want in a relationship.

He has planned and invited me on a trip this weekend, but we would be staying in the same hotel room. I don’t plan on sleeping with him and could keep to that as I have good willpower, but is it still bad form to share a bed this early on? Please advise.