A lot of rational reasons be skeptical toward new feminism (I can be agree at some points, but mostly not), but I have a very personal perspective when it comes about association. Apparently, all kind of mainstream is feminist now. All about female perspective (via gender ideology), every music genre, every movie and trendy clothing is gynocentric, feminist women are everywhere and male representations are guided by feminist standars (All of new male-trends are focused on feminist views, not male-builded masculinity anymore). All kind of expression is made by women, and maybe this is how they felt before, but ALL is female oriented right now. This is an evidence of how feminism is reversed sexism (basing on the idea of our last society was supposed to be sexist). I've not seen a male hero in a male-centered movie in YEARS. Not male singers nor male-fronted bands without feminism consciusness.... apparently, feminists think Nu Metal, urban music, street-flick movies were sexist...even if it's a cartoon for kids (like TMNT 2003).
This is awful, is dull and I'd like to know if you are agree. I wouldn't mind to live around feminist politics but:
-Political correctness have turned media so dull
-Gynocentrism in all voices
-Some kind of expressions SILENCED (if we have a new Slim Shady-esque album... it would be banned or what?)
-Guys are not GUYS anymore.
Because I feel like friendships are not the same. My male friends feel pressure about girls, girls are always demanding attention and women can't be quiet. I don't remember what is like to be playing sports with a male group as leissure, girls are everywhere, they don't care if we can't stand them (they say: U SEXIST). All kind of male identity have been removed from media where I live (Spain). Some schools are starting to teach gender topics on kids... I don't see typical boy toys (guns, cars...) on shops for childreen (but I see a lot of dolls, colors..)..what If I wanna give a gift to my little cousin? Women are still saying male bonding on teens is dangerous, and guys shouldn't be educated by men (they say fathers are too distant at the same time). While they impose gender neutrality at schools (Is so CRAZY to see kids with no clear sex by their clothes. Why so boring? Why not girls with miniskirts? Why not boys with spiky hair and unsleeved shirts? Is it harmful or what?...ew)
For me, feminism is 100% sexes equality (but...what about sex differences by nature? are supposed to be women as strong as men? lmao even justice is crazy) but gender inequality: they say female is good, male is bad. This masculinity crisis is the true deppression (not that ToXiC masculinity), and men are still the workers while women demand care. I hope feminist men will attack this system or something, lol, we have problems that feminism won't fix. Men are men, gender won't help our mental health for example (psychology have been pro-female since centuries ago... men can't be depressed as the same way as women, our brains are different...different syntomps...not facts enough?)
What do you do if you have the same experience?