Keeping it exciting

taway987123456 · 2018-12-20T20:22:26+00:00

My dude, don't get too sucked into her reality and world. Most woman dont live exciting lifestyles, a lot of them adapt their activities and passions from a mans frame. Establish before you get into things with her that you live an exciting fulfilling life by yourself and have your own hobbies/activities. You live life on your own terms and her needs will come secondary.

I know the feeling your describing and all I can say was I hadn't discovered a lot of what I loved out of life on my own accord without the need of a woman. Any woman who enters into your life will he happy to stand by your side throughout anything you love to do, and you can both enjoy it together. Also try to be creative with the things you like to try, make sure it's something that resonates with you to some degree and never be afraid of being uncomfortable trying something new.

Just my 2 cents.

epushepepu · 2018-12-20T20:22:03+00:00

Role playing, fuck outdoors , use ur imagination

Pycal · 2018-12-20T21:07:09+00:00

Don't see each other everyday, do things for yourself and when you are alone and can think properly, an answer will appear. It can be that the relationship bored you, or maybe you came out with an idea of something that both of you can enjoy and can do.

The truth is that we can give ideas or tips, but the best ones are the ones that can relate your feelings and what the relationship needs (maybe a time, maybe a week outside your place or just a walk in the park)

sandal_on · 2018-12-21T01:34:14+00:00

Easy, especially if you like drama. Start drama. Read up on it. Be prepared to lose her so you know how to pull it off well after a few relationships.

INNASKILLZ2K18 · 2018-12-21T09:21:43+00:00

Is it she's bored with you, or bored with activities you do?

If it's activities...find shit YOU love doing. Tell you're doing *** ...and she can come if she wants. Or 'I want to do *, looks awesome, are you in'?

Don't give impression your choosing activities to impress her...that's beta. And don't ask what she feels like doing. She wants you to lead, and to submit to your pleasures.

Have fun shit you would do alone...and she is free to join. Have a ship you steer that keeps you happy...and she can be the passenger

It's not just activities she wants to do that are exciting. She can do them with any guy...she wants to be excited by how you have stuff YOU love...how you make your own choices...and how you lead her.

Title	Keeping it exciting
Author	sobrage
Upvotes	1
Comments	5
Date	December 20, 2018 8:10 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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