My whole life i've had this mindset of "if you get a gift you have to give as much back or you should feel bad". But my boyfriend and I have been dating for 6 months so the realationship is pretty recent, and he just got me the first really expencive gift since we got together. Dont get me wrong, he buys me stuff all the time but theyre not as costly. Like lunch or a video game. The gift he got me was a 16k gold necklace with stars on it. (My name tanslates into sun, which is a star, and he always calls me his star.) My question is, how do I stop feeling bad about it? I really love the necklace but I feel so bad accepting it