Hello all,

As a newbie to this channel I want to thank all of you for being real and respectable women to look up to. I have recently been through a very toxic and abusive marriage and I am newly separated. I am learning so many amazing new points from this channel and I am in the process of reading the handbook. However sometimes with realness, can come a little bit of sadness along with it. I am the type of person that would rather be upset by the truth then be sold with A lie and I am finding it a little bit difficult sometimes to see the light at the end of the tunnel that there really is another person out there that can fulfill our needs. I am noticing out here after being in a marriage and with someone for about seven years there are quite a lot of disappointments. I am not saying I’m going to give up nor should any of us I’m just wondering if anyone has a positive story they can share of bad past relationship with men that have led them to find someone to be there everything and love them so so much to the point where they realize why the previous relationships never worked. Again I really think all of you for being so real and so authentically yourself at the end of the day we are women and we deserve best XO