I usually meet men through OLD but do you respond to hey or hello after getting matched ? Also do guys normally suggest ? Sometimes the guy wants me to choose and when I do, guys pay in full. Where do you suggest if the guy leaves it up to you to choose?

Personally I prefer somewhere more upscale as I live in nyc. I’m not a fan of drinking nor coffees and there has been times I ran out of places or options to choose from.