The start so young 😭

extraacct1234 · 2020-02-23T18:11:42+00:00

And the advice they're giving her.

"Talk to him again!" She's already spoken to him repeatedly and he doesn't care. They're shaming her. This is ridiculous. "Call him out".

Anyway he's violating her consent and then when she tries to talk to him about it he throws a pity party to flip the script and make himself the victim and make her comfort him. This is abuse and this is manipulation and this is an indication that he does not respect consent and men who don't respect consent rape.

SarcasmSlide · 2020-02-23T18:49:41+00:00

Oh my gosh. My heart just breaks for the young women today. Entire generations of pornsick men and these poor ladies have no idea what the real problem is. I’m so fucking glad I don’t have daughters I don’t know if I could watch this.

pissed_af · 2020-02-23T19:34:48+00:00

u/throwRA-32 girl, you might want to take a look at this subreddit, what he is doing is not normal, it's not normal to be addicted to porn, it's not normal to prefer it to your SO, you're not crazy at all.

pissed_af · 2020-02-23T19:29:24+00:00

His excessive use of porn is bad. That’s non debatable. But if it’s to the point it makes you insecure, then that’s your problem. Sounds like a YOU problem. You need to work on your confidence and wellbeing regardless of the relationship. I’ve never heard of a person getting insecure of women in porn. My guess is you don’t exactly have a fit/healthy body and that’s where your insecurity stems from. Work on yourself. That’d be the first step. And secondly, you’re too young to be worrying about things like that. If you’re unhappy, end the relationship.

Oh Jesus, NO. No no no no no "your boyfriend is not making you insecure, you might just be fat" wtf is wrong with people on reddit

pinkroseswater · 2020-02-23T18:58:01+00:00

He won’t change until she calls him out for how pathetic he is. Talking doesn’t work. He will say whatever she wants to hear.

pissed_af · 2020-02-23T19:38:08+00:00

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balladwilds · 2020-02-23T20:28:55+00:00

He wont change, talking from experience.. and she deserves so much better than a pornsick manipulative man.

Balkanka · 2020-02-23T23:21:35+00:00

This is horrifying.

Title	The start so young 😭
Author	FatSassyBlackGirl
Upvotes	31
Comments	13
Date	February 23, 2020 4:54 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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