Is this breakup a test?

okuli · 2020-08-09T17:22:35+00:00

I wonder how many dudes she fucked in those couple of days already. It's just her ego wants you to confirm that she's still desirable. Ignore. I've been in that situation twice, LTR would break up and come back, only to break up again in one month.

MichaelCeraGoneWild · 2020-08-09T17:43:48+00:00

Been there, only got worse when I started responding. She’s craving drama and conflict.

Notice she’ll do all this rather than say what she’s really thinking. It’s a game.

hedged6161 · 2020-08-09T21:42:43+00:00

Demote to plate status... actually no, don’t do that. It’s over. Move on

throw-away-1709 · 2020-08-10T01:51:55+00:00

2 possibilities

A - she's so hard into you that she really regrets B - she tests 4 her own validation.

A - you can dominate up and upgrade YOUR game. Let her bring to the table. Read "the mack within"

B - test it by offering her to invite you to a fancy restaurant and pay for her error. Be distant until she really apologizes.

In both situations :

If she initiates and sucks and fucks like there is no tomorrow - continue your stoicism.

In all other cases drop her.

DO NOT DO THIS if she had "drama queen" mentality.

Musicgoon · 2020-08-09T19:19:53+00:00

When two people break up. Block, Ghost, move on. That ship has sailed buddy. She fucked up and now gets to see you happy with some other woman/women.

Edit: Also, notice how she had planned this by telling you to fight for her? She's controlling you like a puppet.

Project_Zero_Betas · 2020-08-09T20:30:05+00:00

She told me a year ago, randomly, if she ever broke up with me i should fight for her love and not let her go

Its definitely a test: to see how much time attention and validation she can extract from you

mr4kino · 2020-08-09T22:35:45+00:00

Validation and attention craving. It's already over she just want to have you "all for herself" even after the dump. Don't fall for that.

alfred311 · 2020-08-10T14:47:39+00:00

She misses you while fucking random guys, move on

deeznutsbeswingin · 2020-08-10T15:28:12+00:00

She expected you to chase her and when you didn’t it made her hamster go nuclear because it means you probably have options and she is more attracted to you now. It’s a good thing, but you two are done now so just ghost her or tell her to stop bein weird - you broke up and now you’re seeing another girl (lie)

Title	Is this breakup a test?
Author	top10point5
Upvotes	1
Comments	14
Date	August 9, 2020 5:00 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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