Reminder: always have a backup plan.

Jiou112 · 2021-01-06T02:27:13+00:00

Ok... so back in my pick me days, I sat in this man's crap apartment PARKING LOT. Not even inside. Waiting for him for over an hour 🤦‍♀️ He "fell asleep" and left me waiting outside. I DID THIS MORE THAN ONCE 😭 You guys... no. Why?? Thank you FDS. Last time a man "fell asleep" I told him to avert his eyes if he ever saw me again 😂 Block. Delete.

Samvanderkamp123 · 2021-01-06T03:29:04+00:00

Adding to this, make sure you build up an emergency fund and never, ever, ever give a cent of that money to a man.

Don’t “lend” or give money to a man period. His car repair, phone bill and toothache is not your responsibility to fix.

sahu_ · 2021-01-06T05:19:50+00:00

Yeah this one NVM I dated was always chronically late to everything and somehow I put up with it. And then once he made me wait outside his house for over half an hour because he was doing something. Took some effort but got rid of him.

Next time I matched with someone on OLD and he said at one point..I hope you're ok waiting because I'm late to everything. I told him if he makes me wait I'll leave. And it didn't take long after to block and delete him. Nipping that crap in the bud.

If they're late, they don't respect your time and they're not organised enough in their own life to figure out how to be somewhere on time. Just next them.

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Title	Reminder: always have a backup plan.
Author	ciellavi
Upvotes	182
Comments	9
Date	January 5, 2021 7:12 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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