I wear 3 inch shoe lifts that are invisible. They just look like a nice pair of boots. I was recommended to wear it since I'm 5'5" and it helps get me into the "normal" short guy range. It's certainly true that people treat me differently with 3 more inches. The girl I'm dating is like 5'7-8. Tomorrow she wants to teach me how to skate (3rd date), so I'll have to change shoes. What's the best way to play this? Just don't say anything unless she does? I figure I'll probably just try to play it cool and say something smart if she asks me about it. I'm thinking she's quite into me because she pretty much planned on the last date and this upcoming one.