Jesus Christ! Was with this guy for over a year and I had to end the relationship when his NON NEGOTIABLES were:

1- he'd hit our child if we had one (triggering bc of my past)

2- when we had a child, (after bills) money wouldn't be split 50/50 but 60/40 (also triggering to my past)

Fuck men. I'm so sick of wasting my life attempting to find a man whose values aren't screwed up. I'm focusing on myself. Fuck. This.