"Look, I'm not into having my time wasted. It's been a about a month since I've last seen you and your decreasing level of engagement with me leads me to believe either there's another guy/guys or you really don't have any part of your life together. Either way, you need to figure it out, and nobody is going to do it for you. I'm a grown man who doesn't need you romantically to enrich my life, I'll find that elsewhere without issue. I feel as if I've been patient and understanding to a degree, but at a certain point enough is enough. Have the courage to be honest with me and yourself; this childish indecisiveness and using phrases like, "I'll let you know" drives adults like me away and perpetuates your despair. Don't create your own anxiety when you can talk about it and work through it. If you respond, please be honest and thoughtful, it's all I ask."