I'm new the the red pill concept but I'm trying to follow all or at least most of the ideas.

My BF agreed to be exclusive after about a month of meeting and ever since, things have been great. We'd see each other several times a week and text everyday. We've been together for six months.

Six weeks ago, he had to take care of a family legal issue. He's the only one that can deal with that and the stress levels he has are through the roof. Still he texts me everyday, sometimes he updates me on his work. To make things worse, his entire family assets depends on this and he didn't receive any appreciation from them. Said I was the only one that said I was proud of what he's accomplished.

The problem is that I don't know how to deal with that anymore. I barely see him now, maybe once every 2 weeks, some times less. He's flaking for the first time ever. I don't think he's cheating or having fun on the side, he just has priorities and I'm not one of them.

But I don't know how to deal with the situation, he doesn't know when the situation will change for the better.

I stopped initiating texting but I respond nicely when he does. But I'm starting to wonder if this is worth it anymore. I saw him once last week and I mentioned that even though I knew how busy he was and that I appreciated the time he gave me, I still miss him. He later said that I complained. It was my fault in part because before RPW, I used to do that.

Still, I went through a health scare a couple of weeks ago and he barely asked me about if, only when I mentioned it. The texts now are very brief.

It's been two months like this and I feel more alone than ever. I stopped hoping to see him because I know he won't suggest it, even on weekends.

I'm trying to keep myself busy but I have anxiety. I don't know how much longer I can keep this up. I decided to be a "surrendered" girlfriend for a month, then tell him how I feel and if things don't change, I should pull the plug. But I have my doubts. He's worth it but I can't keep this up.

What do you think I should do?