Obligatory pre/post pandemic suggestions.

Asking experienced members what they do or expect to keep the process from becoming repetitive. When in the talking stages I find most questions and conversations to be a little dry and repetitive. And that's not reflective of personality, there's just boring topics that need to get talked about.

And then dating, like, there should be ways of adding excitement that's not physical. And if something I value in a partner is spontaneity and creativity, it's really hard to see at a dinner table.

I know these are things I can do myself and could get someone to do with me, but I want to see it in my partner as well and I want to know how to do that while following the handbook.