How to remain confident as you get older

BlancaBianca · 2021-01-23T17:13:41+00:00

Thank the Lord every day for wife goggles.

Do you have a good skincare routine?

I know a lot of beautiful women twice my age, and it generally gives me comfort to see they have succeeded in aging gracefully but in the moment when I'm having to work around my new eye sagginess during makeup application or putting on my minoxidil, it can be a little stressful facing the reality.

My value may be decreasing in the dating pool but I'm not in the dating pool. All I need to do is keep up my appearance best I can and continue adding value to my man's life in other ways. I am not competing against women in their 20s for him. I have him. I just need to keep him.

_trixie_firecracker_ · 2021-01-23T19:17:24+00:00

Maybe I’m an outlier but ... I was excited to turn 30? Nearly every woman I admire has told me that her 30s were much better than her 20s, and so far (global pandemic notwithstanding), it’s been true for me as well (I just turned 32).

You won’t turn into a hag overnight. Just keep taking care of yourself and wear sunscreen! I’m sure your husband still thinks you are beautiful and will appreciate anything you do to keep looking your best.

santarosa2020 · 2021-01-23T17:55:00+00:00

When you are in your 20s you basically have a free pass. As long as you keep your weight low, take reasonable care of your hair, skin, and nails, and dress well, you will gain attention from men. The important thing to do in your 20s, is not to treat this as a free pass and to be constantly increasing your value outside of your looks. If you don't use your 20s wisely, it's hard to make up for it later.

How do we do this as women? By getting married (or by committing to serving our community while single), by fostering relationships with family and friends (increasing communication skills, offering help to others, etc.), and by learning important skills (cooking, household organization, etc.).

I'm in my 40s now and after having children, I do not look as I did in my 20s. I maintain a low BMI, look after my skin, hair and nails, and dress well, however no one would mistake me for a teenager. That said, I'm confident in my relationship with my husband and he has said many times that my value to him has increased as the years go by. This is because I work hard on my marriage, my mothering skills, my cooking, my household organization skills, etc. I add value to my husband's life in more ways than just looks.

You'll be confident and age gracefully if you're putting in the work, both on maintaining appearance and on developing other feminine life skills. Your 30s should be a time when your value increases the most as you reap the benefits of your hard work in mastering feminine skills.

emmalai85 · 2021-01-24T00:30:55+00:00

i dont see my value decreasing just because I am getting older. shared memories, 6 living offspring and a lifetime commitment. my value increases to him the longer we are together because of everything we've been through and my loyality

Serenityxox34 · 2021-01-23T20:49:08+00:00

Ohh will you stop that you are increasing your value with age it isn’t decreasing . Alright I am 23 will give you that but 30? Really you are getting old near 50 not 30 come one

Title	How to remain confident as you get older
Author	Cherry-lemonade
Upvotes	16
Comments	13
Date	January 23, 2021 5:00 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/RedPillWives
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