Rage and age

adam-l · 2021-02-08T19:59:45+00:00

The fact that you cannot receive support from women is indeed hurtful. You can get support from male friends, though.
Age is not an issue for men.
Shit. 5"6 is a big hurdle. Yes, stellar Game can compensate even that, but how are you gonna get that? The best (only?) way to compensate short height is with muscle mass. Hit the gym hard (don't get injuries, though).

AshyLarry27 · 2021-02-08T21:49:54+00:00

1.) I want you to go on youtube and watch videos of people who are made fun of for getting "angry" when messed with or picked on. Why? I want you to ingrain a pride in NOT being that guy through uncomfortable reinforcement. This is why becoming stolid is very important. You become less reactional by practicing becoming less easily agitated. It's like a muscle you develop with time. Manson's "How to stop giving a f*ck" is an EXCELLENT book that really dives in on why its stupid to care about every little thing that happens to you. In your case a definite must read.

I struggle with intense emotions and many facts about trp really hurt me, how do i move on?

This is natural because our minds in general stress and become aggravated over information that contradicts what we have been told and sold our entire lives. Our subconscious mind works overtime to store patterns and "constants" to conserve mental energy and develop an understanding of the world in which we can operate our thinking around. For example, if we found out tomorrow that 2+2=5, imagine the mental strain that would put on you.

I stress the above because the rage phase brings irrational anger in the wrong direction. It convinces you that WOMEN are the problem and that THEY are why you are not "getting any, why you will always be cheated on, and why you will eventually lose all you have worked so hard for in divorce rape." The problem with this thinking and narrative is that it is low IQ, superficial thinking. It's fast food, post-sidebar reading logic. Its EASY to just blame women for our dating life problems, but we never bother to walk in their shoes. In doing so, newer members just quit on going after women all together with a "what's the point" mentality.

This is why we stress talking to women and putting together plates. Not only does this give you multiple women to talk to, but you start to see through their lens. You start to see why they are quick to abandon ship and actually parse through their options. Societal norms dictate men must make the first move and so women are used to sitting back and getting hit on. They gauge their options by what comes their way, similar to how we entertain the large variety of food at a market for what we will enjoy for dinner. It is human nature that we try new things, and change things up. We always get tired of the same old things we do that are mundane and repetitive. Its why everyone is "expendable." We get tired of "favorite" food, songs, actors, athletes, friends, ect. Women just act in this practice because it is organic to them as "humans," and so it is not them being evil wenches. It is no different than shaming someone eating chicken and being "disloyal" to your favorite food steak. Men have to invest a lot of work so they are more prone to getting attached. That doesn't mean you hate the player, but you can hate the game.

2.) Age doesn't mean shit. You age is as much a barrier as you mentally allow it to be. Plenty of guys on here are smashing into their 50's. You will always have potential. It's your life, do what you want, accomplish things whenever you want. If your goal is to be a business owner, completing that goal at 60 is no failure. You did it, its your life. Age is just a number and no true indication of how "much time you have on this planet." You could be 18 and get hit by a car tomorrow and what good was being "18" when you're dead? Besides, we all suffer from a terminal illness called "being alive." Our cells and body breakdown every year, something will eventually take you out, why give a shit though. Just live your life.

3.) Height is a massive cop out for betas who don't want to try. I have 2 friends the same height as you and smash plenty. Physical, exterior factor are again as limiting as you allow them to be. Sure most women won't be drawn to you like some 6 ft chad, but its your frame and game that ultimately matter. I have seen 6 ft tall dudes just face plant from how awkward and cringe their game can be. My two friends are naturally calm and solid with banter and wit, which allows them to think of great and funny things to say on their feet. You don't have to be a professional comedian, but work on your banter, improv, and sense of humor. Women will respond as much to your confidence as they will your "physical" attributes.

AnonChadThunder · 2021-02-09T00:18:01+00:00

I suffer from bipolar disorder as well. I rarely have extreme mood swings. The things I do...

Lift heavy ass weights
Sleep on the same schedule: 8 hours every night
Eat high protein, low sugar diet
Take on responsibility
Absolutely no alcohol or drugs
Meds every day at the same time

I have bipolar 1 which is typically a bit more manageable with meds than 2. Don’t let your mental illness stop you from finding success and developing frame.

Snowboard18 · 2021-02-08T20:16:55+00:00

1) Your anger is there because you've placed too much importance on women up to this point in your life. Specifically them being nice and sweet like the bluepill wants to tell us. So you have to change where you place that importance. Instead of it being on women, place that mental energy into worrying about your lifting goals, your purpose, or maybe some other hobby.

2) You cant change your age, so stop thinking about if your age will prevent you from certain things. Just start right now and go be successful and slay vag

3) Same as #2, You cant change it so stop thinking about it or being insecure about it cause thats what you got

FinancialThanks1 · 2021-02-08T19:37:54+00:00

Obviously get therapy and whatever other treatment you need. Exercise, a good diet, and sleeping well will be good for your head. I wouldn’t recommend looking at any conversation in these subs. The sidebar is enough. There are too many retards and it can be infectious.

For 2 and 3: stop thinking and start doing

Title	Rage and age
Author	scott195
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Date	February 8, 2021 7:05 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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