On a subconscious level, I find that men (or is it just me) are able to identify whether a man gets pussy or not based on the way he carries himself. I have met many people who have put hours and hours of work in the gym, built a big imposing body yet carry themselves like bitches. I have a friend who is a pure alpha, 5'6 and chubby with muscle mass, sorta like a dad bod thing, but the amount of pussy he gets is unbelievable. He is extremely assertive and dominant through the way he talks, walks, acts etc. he literally slaps girls asses and they laugh about it. People can just feel his masculine presence.

I have put work in the gym, am 5'11, dress well, have a nice haircut, cut out smoking and video games completely, developed some muscle mass (body transformation can be found in post history), yet I still get little to no girls, most likely due to my poor mindset. My question is how do you develop a mindset that exudes a masculine aura?