I'm an active lurker and occasional commenter in this subreddit but something is on my mind. I'm young and in school but recently became more active in some FB groups pertaining to more RPW ideologies.

There was a rude argument started by one of the wives that think that being independent means you are single when many of the women in the group are in fact working while staying feminine. She had some valid points but she came across as harpy and aggressive.

I made the point that I'm active in this group and see MANY high power women that are CEOs and professors and the like, but are still very much able to leave the independent/masculine mindset at work and retaining their femininity and submissiveness at home. I understand the whole blue pill idea that you "don't need no man" and that isn't where I'm getting at all and I personally reject the notion.

So, what are your thoughts on being independent and still being feminine?

EDIT: I have decided to leave the group. At face value, they had some traditional values but for the most part, the group was honestly full of women with ghetto behavior that only dress and attempt to act feminine rather than learning to develop a more feminine mindset.