Been talking to my neighbour for around a week now. We hooked up the second night we hung out, and everything was going good. She was saying a lot of things like “I like you, you’re perfect”, asking me to go to the mall with her, talking about shows she wants to watch with me,etc. I was worried she was catching feelings. I wasn’t against dating her in the future, but never led her down that road the way she was doing to me.

She was in my bed two nights ago and we both wanted to fuck but decided to wait because she had a UTI. The day after that, she sends me a snap saying sorry but she doesn’t want to talk or see me again?? I replied with “where is this coming from?” And we talked about it more but she was extremely bitchy and cold. Next thing I know, she deleted me on snap. She refused to talk in person about it when I asked to over snap, and she’s literally my neighbour lmao.

First off, I’ve definitely realized that this bitch is crazy, but I am wondering if maybe things were moving too fast for her, getting too intimate... maybe she was more interested in fucking once in a while and not talking so much. What did I do that turned her off?

Should I have just been a bigger dick to her and not talked so much? Do I just play it cool from here and not try reaching out to her at all, or should I tell her in person that she pissed me off by telling me all those things and just switching up on me? I just feel really disrespected considering she would say all those things and cut me off in an instant. I’m still down to smash, but this time I’ll be smarter and not give her the time of day.

Any advice would be appreciated, thanks!