I’m asking this cause I think it’s a red flag when they don’t proactively do this.

I’m not in an LTR currently, but my general experience with chicks warrant this question.

So my experience with chicks in general:

They blab about their feelings. I listen. Sometimes I ask how they are doing. They talk a lot, I listen. I don’t generally get too emotional but if I want to talk about it, they do LISTEN. (Cause I’m a cool bahah)

I’m a reasonably stoic dude with a strong frame. Buuuut, women NEVER proactively ask me if I feel good. I think in an LTR, your LTR should care about your feelings right???? I could assume my strong frame is rubbing off on her that she internally thinks I’m doing well. But the lack of effort from them in general puts me off.

Hence title. Please answer my question to the point.

(I have no intention of wanting an LTR, but I think this a good vetting metric. I wanna be prepared when I’m ready/interested. )