So I have just got a really good job offer that is paying twice my current salary.

But this job requires me to relocate.

How do I convince my LTR to quit her job, leave her family and relocate with me because Im obviously not doing Long distance relationship.

1) Do I go for the pure alpha mindset of dont give a fck and just relocate and leave it in her hands on whether she wants to follow?

2) Do I just be assertive and command her to relocate with me?

3) Do I try to persuade her?

4) any other ideas?