My entire life my mother indoctrinated me with this belief women are some diamond that must be treasured and you must avoid at all costs to hurt their feelings. I should mention my Dad hightailed it on her, so I can understand. As well as some bullshit about no sex before marriage, etc etc. Thanks Jesus..

I'm trying to break into TRP, but this is the biggest thing for me. I have no issues with game, showing value, etc etc. Locking the woman in is no problem. The main issue for me is what comes after we do the do. I just ended it with two chicks who were under the impression I wanted more. One took it really well, understood my reasons for not wanting to be in a relationship, blah blah blah. The second, couldn't handle it. She was "ruined". I seem to have this curse, my father calls it that anyway. Women fall instantly in love with me once we become intimate. It makes this worse. I felt like shit in both situations. I kept telling myself, I feel this way but I can't control it (trying the whole surrender thing), I shouldn't care they don't have value I want, etc etc. But it never changed the amount of shit I felt. It's like some subconscious beta buckness in me I can't seem to exterminate.

Is it really that bad though? I feel it may be healthy to feel these feelings. Any tips from the community? Anyone else been through this?