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[–]TeddyMGTOW2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
If you got the time go for it, low cost venue where you can escalate like a bar. No Starbucks!
[+]hrt32-6 points-5 points-4 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
But what if she genuinely means as friends and she doesnt let me escalate? That would emasculate me, never been in this situation. She does find me attractive tho
[–]hepazepie4 points5 points6 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
If that emasculates you, you clearly have other problems
[–]pyth0ns2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
OP - Update us in 3 months, when you've become the monkey she branched to ;)
[–]throwhawayyyy3 points4 points5 points 5 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
she wouldn’t be on a dating app or trying to “meet as friends” unless she was looking to hookup, treat the “just friends” thing as plausible deniability. meet up with her and escalate if you don’t mind that she has a guy
[–]hrt320 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
How do I respond to her message? I cant help but think she will cuck me and not wanna let me escalate. I'm always in my masculine but idk if shes accepting this offer due to it being an "I owe you date". Also saw she deleted her bumble account a month ago. Fuck it and go?
[–]throwhawayyyy2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
just go and see what happens, the worst that can happen is she doesn’t let you escalate. keep the date short and don’t pay for her food or whatever.
edit: as a reply you can be like “i’ll pick you up on x and we’ll go to y”, don’t reply to the her last msg directly
[–]TeddyMGTOW2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
overthinking things...just meet her for a drink...whatcha got to lose...
[–]themostgianthorse1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
“We can hang as friends.”
You gotta love that!
A pitcher is on the mound but you’re in the bullpen and you might get called up.
[–]Don_Draper270 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I'd probably set up something quick with low expectations. You can spit your game and make a move if there's IOI's.
When you meet up honestly don't even acknowledge the boyfriend. Treat it as any other Tinder meet.
If you don't bring up the bf and she don't and you f-close, then it's not your problem.
But imo, a girl who was happily taken wouldn't of even replied to your text, so if she meets, I'm sure she's wondering if something "might just happen". Maybe try offering extra plausible deniability she can tell her friends.
And "I'm in a relationship now" could just mean that she's fucking Chad, but he don't want to commit, or she has a BB, and is low key hungry for good dick.
[–]DavidCameronEtonLad0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
If you're attracted to her just meet her up. A girl who's serious about her relationship wouldn't even entertain a dude especially if she knows that he wants her. Meeting as friends is probably plausible deniability and if you act right you can probably get what you want
[–]kclanton800 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This is a situation nwhereyou don't want to spend any money, or any substantial time investment. Inivute her over to your place only. She will get the hint that you want only to fool around, and she will agree to it or she won't.
[–]ModsCantBanMe2020-2 points-1 points0 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
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