52 y.o. M, I met 38 y.o. F on one of the dating apps a year ago. She and I are both divorced with kids part time and live about 45 minutes apart, so getting together regularly has been difficult. I met her at a park for a first date, we came back to my place and I banged her brains out. She's a Russian American and an ex-model (she showed me all the pictures) and in many ways it's been the perfect relationship. For the better part of the last year, she's come over to my place every Saturday night that I don't have my kids and we cook together, watch movies, drink, soak in my jacuzzi tub, and fuck our brains out. I've continue to spin many other plates, fuck many other girls, and up until now she hasn't asked for any kind of exclusivity or additional commitment from me.

She came over again last Saturday night in a smoking hot dress, freshly colored hair, full makeup, stunning. We had dinner together and grabbed our drinks and went down to my private gated beach where we've spent so much time together. She was drinking more than she usually does and all off a sudden she starts talking about that if I want to continue to see her she wants more from me, that I need to go to her place every once in a while, that I need to take her on a summer vacation, and that I haven't been there for her at all to help out when she recently moved into a new townhome. I mostly ignored her requests and told her that it would be fun to go away together for a few days on a vacation, but we were officially having The Talk.

We walked back to my place and continued an enjoyable evening and she continued drinking, and our conversations got off the rails a bit. I don't even remember how it even came up (I was drinking plenty as well), but she started telling me about a black male model that she used to fuck many years ago and how attractive he was. I asked her what she found most attractive about me and she said that she liked how stable I am and my big penis. Now, I'm not a male model but I'm naturally good-looking, well-groomed, and lift and a solid 7/8. I made the comment to her that I guess my appearance wasn't one of her key attractions and she backpedaled and told me how attractive I am to her. Fine.

At about midnight we were walking down a set of stairs and I noticed in her open-toed shoes that one of her toes is somewhat deformed and I and teased her by saying, "hey, what's up with your toe?" She immediately got defensive and upset in her drunken state and proceeded to grab her purse and keys and drive off across town in the middle of the night. This is now the third time in the year that I've known her that she's stormed out over something silly, but otherwise her demeanor has been very stable. She recently told me that her doctor had prescribed her lithium for her anxiety and that she thinks it's really helping her. I admire her for taking action for something she's trying to fix, but being prescribed lithium is another red flag for me.

In many ways she's been a perfect plate, but now she's asking for more commitment and there's been another episode of an emotional outburst and I'm wondering if it's time to next her. I haven't spoken to or texted her since she stormed out as I'm punishing her for her bad behavior, but I'm giving serious thought to telling her this week that we won't be seeing each other any more.

I'm guessing the prevailing sentiment will be to drop her from the rotation, but the good times with her have been really damn good. So what's the call, red pill bros?