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bigtoeneedhelp/r/askTRP30/06/20 01:59 AM
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bigtoeneedhelp/r/askTRP13/03/21 08:13 AM
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This doesn't mean don't do favours for people. Humans are designed to function best in communities, doing small favours here and there is a part of that. That being said don't ever sacrifice your long term health or finances like this for someone else. The man is the centre piece of the house, if he does not protect his own health the house will fail and if enough men in a community do it then the community fails.
/r/TheRedPill20/01/22 01:07 AM
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The thing that depresses me a lot is that girls that I purely pump and dump try so hard to win my affection whilst the ones that I treat as what I deem to be normal lose interest fairly quickly. I've been showered with gifts, babied, cooked for and taxied around by girls that I only hit up when I need something done meanwhile the ones that I genuinely like lose interest quickly. I have had girls that I disrespected in ways that I would never tolerate only bring it up and cause a scene the moment…
/r/TheRedPill29/09/21 11:28 PM
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It's impossible for us to determine what your work place thinks of you. You could always just strike up some small talk a few times and it'll usually break any tension there was. Just stay away from drama and keep the conversation superficial and you'll cruise through.
/r/seduction06/09/21 12:44 PM
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What the fuck is it with mothers and hating their sons for going to the gym?
/r/TheRedPill17/06/21 12:19 PM
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I’ve had girls mention their boyfriend and end up in my bed. I’ve had girlfriends who would mention me and cheat anyway. I’d look at other cues as to whether she’s trying to end the interaction or whether she’s just throwing a test. If she starts looking away, going on her phone and getting fidgety then I would leave her be. Or if she’s really adamant about the whole boyfriend thing “like I said I have a boyfriend.” Then again I don’t really waste time when cold approaching, I usually just say w…
/r/seduction11/06/21 06:56 AM
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You’re a man. Leave.
/r/seduction07/06/21 02:55 AM
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Go for it. If she rejects you, good, you can learn to overcome rejection. If she doesn’t, good, you got what you wanted. Either way its a win-win. There will never be a perfect moment. You will never perfect your game, you will only continue to get better at it until you literally stop giving a fuck and realise that that is the best game anyone can have. Call her “Hey, don’t know if you heard, but you’re meeting me for coffee(or drinks) this friday at (place)” She says yes or no and you hang up …
/r/seduction06/06/21 04:55 PM
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Odds of what?
/r/askTRP02/06/21 08:28 AM
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What’s your point? just nut in them and move on.
/r/askTRP02/06/21 04:45 AM
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I had a one night stand where she asked me to pretend that I’m her husband for the night. I was curious to see where she wanted to go with the fantasy and so I played into it. She was one of the ones that asked me to tell her I love her. Definitely caught me off guard. I hook up with her every few months and now that I think about it you’re right, she is a complete psycho.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 01:53 AM
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It’s not that weird I’ve had chicks ask me to do the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 10:19 PM
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How do you react to nudes? Since I’ve started having massive success plating women some of my ex’s from my BP days have been sending me nudes out of the blue. I ignored a few of them and after the 4th picture of tits I just said ‘nice but I’ll have to see them irl to assess them’ from which I set up a date to meet up. I’m hesitant to to text anything but logistics.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/21 12:02 AM
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It’s stories like this that scare me the most. I pride myself on being a good manipulator but some women are just leagues better than I as a man could ever be. How can you just fake a good girl persona for 3 years. I always end up showing my true colours to people within a few months of meeting them, I can’t help it, pretending to be anything other than what I actually am is too exhausting and at some point I stop giving a shit. I’ll be honest if a chick was able to act good for 3 years just to …
/r/askTRP27/05/21 10:16 AM
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Distance yourself from him as much as you can. These types of weirdoes are dangerous, he’s probably bad mouthing you behind your back. Don’t communicate that you’re distancing yourself either, just avoid him. This is were having multiple social circles is a god send, you can jump between them depending on who you want to avoid. It also makes you less available in general which makes people enjoy the time they do have with you more.
/r/askTRP26/05/21 09:34 PM
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Short answer you need more side bar and you need to approach more women. If you go into it looking to entertain her you're more likely to fail, you need to invite her into your world. So I'll serve you an example and you'll use your brain to apply it to your own situation. I'm a broke uni student. Currently one of my plates is the ex girlfriend of a rich rapper (party chick like the one in your description), another is a woman of God who goes to church every Sunday and the third is the daughter …
/r/askTRP26/05/21 12:54 AM
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You’re way more experienced then I am but I don’t think asking her what she found attractive about you was a good idea. It showed that the male black model story made you feel insecure and she detected that. I think that is what she really stormed out over, the toe comment was just an excuse for her to bounce.
/r/askTRP18/05/21 05:03 AM
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I’m not taking advice from someone who wears X brand of Y clothing
/r/askTRP14/05/21 04:37 AM
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No but they enjoyed stroking each others hair, play fighting, looking into each other’s eyes, kissing and other examples of kino
/r/askTRP12/05/21 09:31 AM
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Lost my virginity at 20 when I thought I found someone worth it (I know it doesn’t mean anything to most people but for me it did because virginity is a topic people always bring up and I wanted mine to be a happy memory), turns out they weren’t, had a 6 month relationship with them. That was a year ago. I had a-lot of anger in me after that relationship because I felt as though I had been nothing but reasonable and all I got in return was pain. Since then I’ve had 8 lays at the age of 21. Every…
/r/seduction12/05/21 12:39 AM
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A woman’s natural instincts are what they are today because that is what was successful at reproducing viable offspring. Edit: I also wanted to add that historically truly monogamous marriages are rare. In most cultures a man with power would either have mistresses or additional wives.
/r/askTRP30/03/21 05:10 PM
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But can you blame them? If they weren’t the way they were we wouldn’t survive as a species.
/r/askTRP30/03/21 03:49 PM
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https://www.amazon.com/Versace-Eros-Toilette-Spray-Ounce/dp/B00G0U1PR6
/r/askTRP21/03/21 07:05 AM
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I second this, just buy versace eros
/r/askTRP21/03/21 05:10 AM
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The jokes work if you say them with confidence and you balance push pull tactics well. My favourite is when they ask me what age I think they are and I say some shit like ‘60?’ and then they act offended so I say ‘ok 50’ with a smile
/r/askTRP20/03/21 10:20 AM
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I used to have a big problem with small talk. My jokes were too abstract, I thought I had to be geniune in what I was saying and I often I wouldn’t know what to say because everything that I could say, was trivial and of no value. I moved country to attend uni (europe to europe) and I only knew the basics of the language. So at the beginning all I could have were basic conversations. I lacked the vocabulary to go off on a topic. The conversations were fun for me because I’d always pick up a new …
/r/askTRP20/03/21 02:11 AM
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my gf came clean about cheating and I posted on relationshipadvice asking how should I go about cheating back to even the score. All I got was a bunch of hate and then a few dudes pointed me to the red pill sub.
/r/askTRP19/03/21 05:27 AM
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I don’t recommend eating pussy my guy. I regret it every time I do it, makes me feel beta as fuck.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/21 10:46 AM
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bro I wouldn’t listen to this dolmino guy, he’s either a troll or slightly autistic
/r/askTRP13/03/21 06:31 PM
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they’re chads, I’m learning from them
/r/askTRP13/03/21 09:30 AM
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bro, being in good shape makes your life with women 10 times easier. I’ve been jacked whilst blue pilled and I’ve been skinny whilst red pilled and although I’m getting more women than before the attention is only coming to me after I initiate an interaction with them. whilst i was in shape and blue pilled women would forgive me when I acted like a little bitch just because they loved my body. I didn’t have the luxury of fucking up whilst skinny and red pilled.
/r/askTRP12/03/21 07:11 PM
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yeah
/r/askTRP06/03/21 12:32 AM
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they’re all hoes, so you either ltr a hoe or you ltr a hoe who pretends she’s not a hoe. Will she cheat? Probably Will I stop trying to spin plates for her? No Is ltr status easy consistent pussy? yes
/r/askTRP05/03/21 02:13 PM
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you’re right, thank you for the advice.
/r/askTRP04/03/21 03:08 PM
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Yeah, and make it a spectacle with at least one close friend as a witness so that motherfuckers know the consequences of pushing you too far.
/r/askTRP24/01/21 08:13 AM
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At the moment during a covid lockdown they offer pussy, meals, someone to watch netflix with and eventually if you so desire, children. Other than that there's not really that much to them.
/r/askTRP21/01/21 03:17 AM
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There's a high chance she'll love him for it, she'll become obsessed with him. How can he just do that to me? What is he doing now? Does he at least think about me? To leave your mark on a womans mind is greatly satisfying. Knowing that whilst she'll be lying with another man who is giving his all to her, her thoughts will drift to you. I'm of the opinion that revenge is not childish, its necessary, its what deters people from doing you wrong.
/r/askTRP20/01/21 08:42 PM
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An eye for an eye leaves two people with one eye. She knows what she did wrong, besides why should he care if she learns from the experience or not? How does it benefit him in any way?
/r/askTRP20/01/21 05:18 PM
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She hurt his feelings first, an eye for an eye.
/r/askTRP20/01/21 03:31 PM
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I am in a similar position to you. I keep my friends who aren't successful around for personal entertainment. My closest friends are who I am the most natural with, they are who I open up to and bounce ideas off of, sometimes its better that those friends aren't ambitious or in positions of power because then if we ever fell out with eachother they'd be dangerous. Your childhood friends are important, they come with the added benefit that they're like extended family, you don't have to stay in t…
/r/askTRP12/01/21 09:05 AM
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Dm me too. I had a similar experience. As a child I was extremely empathetic, almost too empathetic. But my step father was an extreme narcissist and I went to a public school in the hood. I was programmed to be the way I am. I was given no mercy at times and so I stopped feeling sorry for myself and other people. I used to stick up for the outcasts getting bullied but then they would turn their backs on me when I needed their help, shit like that.
/r/askTRP10/01/21 04:57 PM
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I have no intention to marry any of my plates. You're the type of guy I take girls from when they realise I'm more fun.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/21 11:56 AM
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You should try dancing bro. When you dance really well its a display of athletic performance, it shows off your muscles and coordination. It also shows you know how to have a good time and are confident. The last party I was at all the guys bar one other dude were sitting down twiddling their thumbs whilst all the girls surrounded me and him. As I was dancing I'd switch from one girl to another to another. When I went to sit down to take a break they followed me and started competing for my atte…
/r/TheRedPill08/01/21 10:37 AM
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Either BPD or bipolar. Either way you played it well.
/r/askTRP07/01/21 10:25 AM
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I don't know about you but alot of women bore me so I like the crazy ones more because they're so much more entertaining.
/r/askTRP07/01/21 10:20 AM
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I say post it
/r/askTRP07/01/21 02:38 AM
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Go for it
/r/askTRP06/01/21 07:57 AM
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Apply dread by withdrawing attention and you might get some more sex. But your attitude is all wrong and that is the reason why she's denying you sex in the first place. Also don't tell her what you're planning or why you're behaving the way you are, she'll understand. I'd just next it if they start denying sex for xyz reason.
/r/askTRP06/01/21 06:43 AM
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Woah there bud, relax. Breathe. You're alive. You are suffering in your thoughts. You're imagining all the things people think about you, all the things you could have achieved by now, all the unfairness in how hard it is for you compared to these rich fuckers at uni. I'm in dental school too. I come from a poor family. Raised by my mother. Step dad wanted me dead and gone. I've failed years. I've wanted to off myself too. I've had all the same thoughts you're having. The people telling you this…
/r/askTRP05/01/21 01:35 PM
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Ok thank you, you are right. Man I feel disgusted with myself
/r/askTRP01/01/21 08:13 AM
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Ok you are right, I've only tried again with 3 different chicks, but man I feel like I fucked up big time. I feel like such a piece of shit
/r/askTRP01/01/21 08:12 AM
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Fuck them when your parents aren't home or in a park
/r/askTRP31/12/20 01:50 AM
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You are blue pilled as fuck.
/r/askTRP29/12/20 03:09 AM
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Yeah what this guy said. I've noticed that often a woman will straight up point out the red pilled thing to do. "Why do I feel like I'm being friendzoned" "Noo, now I feel bad, don't cancel your plans to see me, I'll be fine" Etc. Btw wtf is up with all these blue pilled replies. Motherfuckers talking about "not in another mans house" like what? People on this sub are going balls deep in mens wives whilst they're out at work and theres people here upset that you're fucking a dudes daughter in hi…
/r/askTRP29/12/20 03:08 AM
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Had a similar situation, I started fornicating and the third wheel pretended to sleep.
/r/askTRP28/12/20 07:31 PM
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I've done it before and the woman became obsessed with me. I kept our initial interactions red pilled and then after a few smashes she pulled back and stopped sleeping with me. Which is when as a hail Mary I love nuked, bought flowers, told her some shit to the effect that she's special and managed to juice out a few extra lays. Then I went back to acting red pilled.
/r/askTRP27/12/20 07:56 PM
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Model looking chick living in the same apartment as me. I noticed her the first day I moved in, I had one of my plates over on the first day because she was excited to see me again and the three of us met in the kitchen by chance. I asked her about the rules and stuff and got her contact details in case I needed to get in touch about something to do with the apartment. 1 month went by as I settled in, I'd only see her here and there as I was getting food from the fridge or leaving to go about my…
/r/askTRP26/12/20 11:07 PM
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Sure. You're gay if you like older women, nice one there bud.
/r/askTRP26/12/20 08:01 PM
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Merry Christmas kings. You people helped me alot this year, I found trp after posting on the relationship advice sub that I wanted to cheat on my girlfriend after she cheated on me. The bp cucks on that sub said that its wrong bla bla bla, that I should just leave her and if I do it then I'm as bad as her and deserve her. A few you of you degenerates private messaged me about this place and its been nothing but self improvement ever since. I'm out of the anger phase, I'm always learning, my plat…
/r/askTRP25/12/20 08:29 PM
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Attacking a woman's ego from the get go is a legit strategy. I do it all the time. Patrice O'Neal used to do it too. Patrice said that he would tell a bitch he likes "Bitch yo breath stink", then he'd sweeten up after a bit of arguing. It throws attractive women off guard, they don't expect it and it baits them into engaging with you. Women just want to feel emotion, be it negative or positive. In my opinion I don't believe she unmatched because of the insults, more so she looked over your pics …
/r/askTRP23/12/20 05:04 PM
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Personally I've had a few tinder hook ups and a few dates that went no where. I don't really see anything glaringly wrong with what you were messaging I think she had low investment from the get go if she unmatched that fast. Although I wouldn't keep opening fire non stop, I periodically throw some jabs and hooks to keep them in check but otherwise I keep it neutral trying to set up the meet. Push pull push pull. Also don't have long text convos, once you establish some banter try and meet up.
/r/askTRP23/12/20 10:34 AM
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Bro what the fuck, what a psycho bitch, bet that pussy hit different though.
/r/askTRP23/12/20 06:52 AM
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What part of my post history? Fair enough, of course if you look at my post history its going to look bad because we're all here to digest the red pill way. I think my post history shows clear and relatively fast progress.
/r/askTRP21/12/20 03:45 PM
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I never said they'll stay with a sick spouse
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/20 02:42 PM
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You'll get loyalty from a dog. You'll get loyalty from your close male friends. Its a useful attribute to have when waging wars with neighbouring tribes or going hunting in parties. Women don't wage wars and they don't hunt. Loyalty is a form of investment, I'll stay by your side and watch you grow because I believe that you'll be something valuable and in return when you make it big or if I fall you'll help me too. Women show loyalty to their children and the end result only. What can you do fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/20 01:27 PM
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Working on it brother. I've come a long way, and faking it has definitely pushed my baseline up. Still a long way to go though.
/r/askTRP21/12/20 01:24 PM
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They don't usually do this to me. I don't do them often either. Its the first time something like that happened to me whilst high. My drug use has always just been out of curiosity, I read up on various drugs, the neuroreceptors they bind to, their degree of neurotoxicity, how addictive they are, the reported side effects and then I try them if it sounds fun and its low risk. This was during my teens and my obsession with the neuroscience behind drugs and consciousness led me into the field of m…
/r/askTRP21/12/20 01:07 PM
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I had an ex who would always call and message people whilst on mdma. I learned from her mistakes to never contact the outside world whilst on a trip Just didn't expect I would be tripping from a few tokes.
/r/askTRP21/12/20 12:32 PM
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Woah dude, you're still doing coke? You need to get on that new shit, take a mans life.
/r/askTRP21/12/20 12:11 PM
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I think my brain was wrecked from all the degenerate behaviour. I was expecting a nice melow high to enjoy some music on my way home, maybe do a bit of studying before going back to sleep, instead I got fucking bodied.
/r/askTRP21/12/20 12:09 PM
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A woman you fuck regularly
/r/askTRP21/12/20 12:03 PM
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What does that mean? Stay for you? Your value is a part of you. The same way her physical appearance is a part of her. If she gets fat and you become poor then you've both changed and its fair to leave
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/20 11:05 AM
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True, I realised this a few minutes ago. Hence I'm going to let go, just offer pizza and be on my way in life.
/r/askTRP04/11/20 08:28 AM
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Thing is I've had girls who are very attractive. Who had great personalities and I loved them for who they where aswell as for their looks. They've made a million promises to me. They've looked me in the eye and told me I'm the greatest thing to ever happen to them without me ever prompting it, then after a few months once I had let my guard down and started genuinely caring about them, cheat. I've seen it happen in my family too. I've watched two men (niether my father) devout thousands of doll…
/r/askTRP30/10/20 11:52 PM
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Say that you have many boyfriends and that she should get on your level
/r/askTRP29/10/20 10:25 AM
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Why the fuck didn't I think of this. Find a fat slut that cooks, cleans, has her own place and goes to work. Whilst she's out bring bitches over to her place.
/r/askTRP28/10/20 05:54 AM
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Bro even the most gangster motherfucker on this planet shit stink. Don't stress it. Forgive yourself and keep eyes forward.
/r/askTRP26/10/20 03:03 AM
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I'll admit the list neglects the need for socialising. I count learning an instrument as studying. The reason why I don't include studying is because just by going to the gym, practicing jiu jitsu, going to my university I come across enough opportunities to socialise when I feel the need. But I'm currently at a stage in my life where I have too many social distractions to include it on the list. If you are someone who needs to socialise more you could include it on the list.
/r/askTRP24/10/20 05:24 PM
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I use a straight forward list. Exercise, Sleep, Diet, Meditation, Study, Every day I only focus on these 5 things and I know that if I let one of them fall behind then I become weaker emotionally and eventually physically. If I'm doing anything other than those things then its a distraction and I need to stop doing it.
/r/askTRP24/10/20 12:33 PM
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Yeah, last friday I went out drinking with a guy from gym and he brought his social circle. He put up on his Instagram story that he was looking for a party before everything closes down due to a spike in covid cases and I replied to it saying hit me up when you find one. This week we did some body weight training in the park because the gyms closed. If someone is using the gym equipment that you wish to use just strike up a conversation with them after jumping in and out between sets.
/r/askTRP22/10/20 05:44 PM
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It made me quite angry in the moment that I had to do it but now I'm over it. The ends justify the means. The moment I get my property back I'll let her know it was all a facade.
/r/askTRP22/10/20 11:11 AM
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I don't believe in karma
/r/askTRP22/10/20 11:00 AM
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Once I finish this course I won't be broke for long. After a bit of simping she's agreed to let me come collect it. Its just crazy how she thinks its appropriate to hold my property hostage over me clearly just messing around.
/r/askTRP22/10/20 10:59 AM
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I wouldn't behave like this towards anyone other than a plate. I have very little respect for this one in particular. Theres a lot of fun in acting chill one moment then suddenly switching, its interesting to watch their reactions.
/r/askTRP22/10/20 10:56 AM
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I live in eastern Europe. They're not cheap here hahaha $80 is like 15 days of rent.
/r/askTRP22/10/20 08:02 AM
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Will do
/r/askTRP22/10/20 08:01 AM
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Of course I'm fragile when a plate decides to power trip out of no where the moment she has the opportunity. She's by no means an angel. She has done horrible things to other people and giggled whilst recounting the stories. I burned a bride? This is a plate, they get nexted all the time? The only thing I get out of this relationship is sex.
/r/askTRP22/10/20 08:00 AM
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Hahaha, I don't really want to deal with the cops for such a minor situation. I didn't just call her fat, she made me dinner and tea and I was leaning back in my chair, mouth still full of food looking her up and down as I made the comment. I also offered her gum afterwards but then then when she accepted I told her to go to the shop and buy some for herself.
/r/askTRP22/10/20 12:42 AM
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I always hug her before I leave, and I plan on leaning then whispering 'thanks fatty' in her ear. She has a boyfriend and she has the audacity to call me the evil one.
/r/askTRP22/10/20 12:36 AM
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An external hard drive which cost me a pretty penny and it contains all my study material for this semester of uni
/r/askTRP22/10/20 12:26 AM
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Bruh, even in my blue pill days I only stayed with a crazy bitch because the sex was fire
/r/askTRP16/10/20 06:24 PM
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I'll give you an example. Me and two of my friends are waiting in line at the bar. My friend recognises a girl in the group infront of us. We move up to the bar as one big group. I ask one of the girls what she's getting. She says "I don't drink alcohol" and just seems very dismissive overall. I say "why, are you pregnant?" She says "no I have a health problem with my liver" I look her up and down and say "well you look pregnant". My boys laugh, her group laughs, I laugh. Later on she was all ov…
/r/askTRP13/10/20 05:41 PM
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I insult them from the get go and then it turns into banter
/r/askTRP13/10/20 05:35 PM
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You nexted her and she's hamstering. Personally I think you gave her waaaay too much attention before you asked her for a date and so she thought she could keep farming it without giving you anything in return. This is why we say texting is only for logistics. Now she realises that you've moved on and she's trying to bait you back in. Don't fear nexting her just because she's in your group, thats a cowards approach. Don't answer any snaps or texts and keep working on yourself. Game other women. …
/r/askTRP13/10/20 03:59 PM
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5 months. I have trouble consuming enough calories. I worked around it with discipline, picking out foods that went down easily and were calorically desnse. When I moved away from uni I stopped working out, I stopped eating enough and I stopped sleeping properly.
/r/askTRP28/09/20 09:49 PM
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You're right, but it's just a natural instinct, its like its built into my DNA to be jealous that I don't own her completely
/r/askTRP21/08/20 07:03 PM
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Yeah, this is the play that I go for but I'm sure they notice me go quiet afterwards
/r/askTRP21/08/20 07:01 PM
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I'm trying to understand why it happens, what makes them feel comfortable telling me this shit? ,Would they tell chad about it? I don't want to think about another dude using the hole that I'm using. I've had girls call me clearly drunk or high looking to come hook up with me whilst they're still at the other dudes place. I usually just say 'na I'm busy' and hang up. But then I just sit there ruminating about what I just heard. And its happened to me multiple times, why do these hoes think I wan…
/r/askTRP21/08/20 06:59 PM
5

Smile, "waters warm!" Get out, take off shirt and show off your greek god physique. Walk at friend with a neutral face and wrestle him in or ask the girl "why are you laughing" and grab her and jump in with her. Its like water under the bridge. These things happen. The people telling you he isn't a good friend for humiliating you don't live in the real world and forget that trp tells you how to attract women and not how to handle your male friends. You can't alienate every man immediately after …
/r/askTRP19/08/20 05:44 PM
2

You did good, she was just looking to harvest your attention and decided she didn't want to fuck you
/r/askTRP19/08/20 03:02 PM
1

There's a free pdf online
/r/askTRP18/08/20 05:45 PM
0

I've only tried inventum, it did the job but I have no clue if it was placebo or not
/r/askTRP18/08/20 12:43 PM
1

We all slip up sometimes
/r/askTRP13/08/20 10:28 AM
6

I think it gives useful information to those who are just beginning their journey
/r/TheRedPill11/08/20 11:07 PM
13

I do it because I get so horny that I stop caring about the consequences.
/r/askTRP07/08/20 07:48 PM
2

It doesn't matter how you actually felt. You told her you were pissed because of her disrespect.
/r/askTRP30/07/20 05:37 PM
9

Bad response. Don't admit to being pissed. It shows too much emotional investment. A man with abundance doesn't give a shit if one of his plates flaked. Just a heads up, she wasn't invested if she flaked in the first place.
/r/askTRP30/07/20 05:07 PM
1

Withdraw all commitment. At least thats what I did. The plate didn't last long though.
/r/askTRP29/07/20 09:51 PM
1

You could always nuke her ego if she doesn't shut the fuck up
/r/askTRP29/07/20 10:57 AM
3

My man... Why do people go to clubs? Men go to find pussy and women go to find dick. Going on her phone is going to hurt you alot but perhaps it will help you swallow the pill. Just spin her as a plate and turn to those options you kept open. I believe the majority of women cheat, and given that you were failing her shit tests I can promise that she's been chugging other mens cum. You know it, I know it and the lurker reading this comment knows it. You are fucked but more importantly she's been …
/r/askTRP29/07/20 12:40 AM
3

Its a basic shit test in my opinion. Her biology is checking if you're a (provider/good dad) or an (alpha/good genes). An alpha won't let a few tears get in the way of his desired goals. She doesn't want to get played? Then she shouldn't be engaging in relationships untill she's delt with that trauma. She shouldn't be out there sucking cock. A mans goal is sex a woman's goal is to find a provider and to have the kids of an alpha. She knows what all men want. You have the option of hard nexting o…
/r/askTRP22/07/20 11:48 AM
13

Being an feminine man takes less energy than being masculine. Masculinity is an endless daily battle of imposing your will on the world around you. Being feminine means submitting to the world around you. If society tells you it's ok to put in less energy into your own existence then I'm sure alot of guys welcome it without realising how much they are sacrificing.
/r/askTRP15/07/20 03:08 PM
12

I look at it the same way. That rollercoaster made me act red pilled before I even discovered the pill.
/r/askTRP05/07/20 04:34 AM
3

I'll go hard in the gym over the next month and then maybe pop up to her again
/r/askTRP05/07/20 03:56 AM
0

Imagine wasting all those words on a slut, I'd rather just go with "sex now"
/r/askTRP05/07/20 03:49 AM
2

It was a pretty sketch meet up. Basically I've talked to her with literally one or two messages over the span of months. You know, treating her as if she were a HB5. Then today/yesterday I started nofap and quit a bunch of other bad habits so my brains dopamine demand just skyrocketed. I sent her a message saying "so when are we going to meet" She said "I just got into town and I'm lying in bed". I said "thats funny because I'm lying in bed too, we should do it together". She agreed, then after …
/r/askTRP05/07/20 03:47 AM
1

Thanks for the heads up
/r/askTRP30/06/20 01:52 PM
3

Thanks for the advice. Any particular reason why you would choose welding?
/r/askTRP30/06/20 02:13 AM
8

Kids are actually pretty alpha. They don't give a fuck, their egos are huge. They can't fathom how useless and dependent they are and they know adults aren't likely to lay a finger on the them if they run their mouths. It's actually covered in the rational male.
/r/askTRP11/06/20 12:13 AM
25

They make up 50% of humanity. Their actions are human
/r/TheRedPill06/06/20 03:39 PM
1

She won't fear Corona if she gets horny enough. Women are hypocrites. The amount of girls on tinder I've smashed after them saying they only want to talk and they're not looking for anything short term, is too damn high. My ex used to get pissed off at me for studying 1 on 1 with other girls from my class. Then she would go out hang out with guys 1 on 1 but it was "different" because "xyz".
/r/askTRP05/06/20 11:07 AM
2

Sounds like a psycho
/r/askTRP03/06/20 03:35 PM
9

All it takes is one argument and chris becomes chad for the night
/r/askTRP02/06/20 07:57 PM
3

Don't let these hoes let you believe that you're weak. Build yourself back up. Don't kid yourself. We all know damn well that all we want is a nice warm hole to fuck. That's all she ever was. That's the only thing you were attracted to. Lord knows if she truly had an interesting personality then she'd be a homie. She's not a homie. If she didn't have a pussy then you wouldn't have bothered doing all those nice things. The lesson to learn here is to not get too attached to woman, and to never put…
/r/TheRedPill02/06/20 03:56 PM
1

My experience with bpd is similar but I'm younger and the relationship lasted less than a year. These BPD's are insane. They're so out of touch with reality it's ridiculous. If you think you're a strong immovable rock with solid frame and that you can somehow help these women. You can't. They will weather you down untill you're a shadow of your former self because their personality itself is like female dating strategy on steroids. The shit tests never stop and its one after the other after the …
/r/TheRedPill02/06/20 03:38 PM
3

The amount you train weekly depends on how fast your muscle recovers. Some people can train 6x a week whilst others can only do 3x. 4 should be fine. Focus on staying consistent. You should be willing to let puppies die of starvation before even daring to think about skipping a work out or a meal. Gaining fat on your face is natural whilst bulking, the degree of fat gained is dependent on genetics. Learn to ignore it, people get far too obsessed with this topic. People go through cutting phases …
/r/askTRP02/06/20 10:50 AM
2

Realise that her words about achieving anything together are lies designed to get you emotionally hooked to her. She will leave when a more alpha option presents itself and you will be left feeling empty and insecure. Your oneitis is growing. She's not special. The guys before you left creampies in her whilst she sold them the same bullshit about always being by their side. Now she's by your side and in the future given your age she'll probably be by someone else's side. Enjoy her whilst she's w…
/r/askTRP02/06/20 09:31 AM
1

75kg is still pretty light and 2500 calories is not enough if you're training and live an active lifestyle. There's no short cuts. Find food that you enjoy and find easy to swallow down (yogurt, protein shakes, mashed potatoes etc). Try and get 3000-4000 calories a day. Make sure to actually count the calories. For the maximum hypertrophy depending on the muscle group you want high reps in (8-12reps) each set. At your height you'll notice that you're big at around 80kg. You want to get bigger ea…
/r/askTRP02/06/20 09:21 AM
1

No. She's on a pill. And she managed to send me a message through a friend. A long dramatic paragraph tl:dr she's moving on from me. Which shows that I'm living in her head rent free because if she was actually moving on she wouldn't have bothered reaching out
/r/askTRP02/06/20 08:36 AM
1

Thank you needed this
/r/askTRP01/06/20 01:44 PM
2

The goal is always sex. I ghosted her because she started getting a bit too disrespectful mentioning her new chad, complimenting him and slyly comparing him to me. Tbf she said if I got into shape like when we first met and if I were more organised like when we first met then I'd be miles more attractive than him. This bitch really thinks she's a disney princess and wants knights to fight for her. I remembered a comment talking about how chicks will use their orbiters looking for validation repa…
/r/askTRP01/06/20 01:14 PM
2

You dismiss it, act like they didn't bring it back up. Divert attention smoothly elsewhere. If you give it attention then it'll never fade. If you don't give it attention it'll be forgotten. It's like the news, nobody remembers all the fucked up shit that happened this time last year because the news keeps presenting new information and diverting attention elsewhere. Look at what happened with the whole Epstein thing, the powers that be fucked up in front of the whole world. No apologies no noth…
/r/askTRP29/05/20 12:51 PM
1

When you're wrong admit that you're wrong but don't dwell on it. Acknowledge the mistake firmly and then move the conversation along (don't rush it along too quickly because then you appear insecure). If you let things rest on your mistake then you're more likely to be pulled out of frame. If you do it right people will almost immediately forget you even made a mistake.
/r/askTRP29/05/20 12:32 PM
5

This is the truth. Be glad you're not a woman. Your reality as a man is much colder and harsher but you were built to withstand. You're bigger, stronger and posses more motivation to attack goals than the vast majority of women. You are the male homo sapien,when properly trained you will be more independent and have much more of an impact on the world around you than the baby making opposite. We have testosterone for a reason. You want to be a bitch then dawn a wig and let a bigger man plug your…
/r/askTRP29/05/20 09:43 AM
8

You're still heavily attached to this woman. Your brain is addicted to her. You need to kill the thought of her. You fucked up, done, over, onward. Keep it moving. She's worthless to you now and if you're as good as you claim to be she'll regret her snakey decisions heavily. Don't do drugs or alcohol but train like a fucking monster. Plan your future career and finance strategies. Fix that broken door handle that's been there for weeks. Set up tent and wait for the storm to pass. Let her presenc…
/r/askTRP28/05/20 11:42 PM
1

Relationships are an endless game of chess. Remember that.
/r/askTRP28/05/20 10:55 PM
2

You have to just go for it man. It pains me to see she met up with you for movies so many times yet you didn't initiate. I actually lost my virginity getting invited over to watch a movie. I was blue pilled at the time too but I knew that I wanted to fuck that night. It was awkward at first because I didn't know what I was doing, but I just went for it, it's the only way you'll pick up a pattern for these things. I even asked her "can I kiss you?" literally the most beta thing I could have done …
/r/TheRedPill28/05/20 07:51 PM
2

Look man, the difference is whether she's lying to you about being exclusive so you can sleep sound at night or telling you the truth. You can never trust a girl that she's being exclusive with you.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/20 07:31 PM
0

Keep spinning that plate. Juggle. If she was your ex once she'll be your ex again. You clearly have oneitis. Don't sacrifice your plate or you'll regret it. I don't know what you mean by she demands to much attention. Just focus on your priorities, she won't leave. Use your ex as a plate too.
/r/askTRP28/05/20 07:23 PM
3

Aside from curing your oneitis you need to push for sex more with the women you're attracted to. You were watching a movie with her for fuck sake, that's basically an open invitation to fuck. Let me repeat, watching movie = gauranteed smash. I promise you if you dicked her good enough that day she would have been hugged naked to you afterwards professing her love to you and presenting countless shit tests. You need to get over your fears man, you're too nice, woman don't want someone that's nice…
/r/TheRedPill28/05/20 07:20 PM
1

I've had tinder for 2 weeks now. I've had 2 one night stands already. I have another set up for Saturday and another for Wensday next week. All with different women all Hb6 and above. So listen to me you thick beta fucking faggot when I tell you what you're doing is all wrong and waaaaay to wordy. Your only goal on tinder is to set up a date in as few words as possible. Let them ask the questions and seek attention. I'm not having a conversation about elon fucking musk on tinder with some random…
/r/askTRP28/05/20 06:59 PM
3

You got hard cucked. You know those pornos where the guy rims adonis chad whilst he's fucking the guys wife. That's you bro, you're the guy licking butt sweat from the alpha impregnating your girl. Hate to break it to you. Now go read some books and exercise faggot.
/r/askTRP28/05/20 06:45 PM
1

It really isn't that deep, does the guy above even live in the real world. Over reacting to a girl hitting you is some pussy shit. The first time my girl slapped me I let it slide. The second time I told her if she pulls that shit again she'll wake up in hospital drinking her food through a straw (I would never actually intentionally hit her outside of sex, I just said it in a firm tone so that she would get spooked). A few months after that she must have forgot, did it again and we started play…
/r/askTRP28/05/20 06:10 PM
9

'I don't know how to make it work with women'. It's never going to work like that with women. A woman will never be a homie. They're wired different. Men needed homies because that's how we survived in tribes, be it hunting or going to war with our neighbours. Women were chilling at home raising our kids and cheating on us. It's how the world spins.
/r/askTRP28/05/20 05:46 PM
6

What you want is for her to love you the way your mother loved you, unconditional and boundless, but you're a grown ass man and no woman is going to love you like that anymore. Squeeze your balls and get some testosterone pumped into your system faggot, wake up. It's be cold world, be colder.
/r/askTRP28/05/20 05:39 PM
34

Women don't have a sense of honour like most men do. Deep down they're all snakes. Like the comment above said, she doesn't care about what you did for her, she only cares about what you can do in the present. She'll rationalise her actions and do mental gymnastics to justify her behaviour. Your time with her is up. None of her arguments will be logical, arguing with her will only waste time and make you less attractive. Your oneitis is strong but you seem to be handling it well. Onward.
/r/askTRP28/05/20 05:33 PM
1

Yeah I smashed. Just make sure your oneitis stays in check. Could be a secure supply of pussy if you play it right (spoiler: you won't). But go for it dude, worst case scenario you're back here feeling depressed looking for advice.
/r/askTRP28/05/20 12:52 AM
6

My friend. Learn from this. Next time invest more in yourself. You're stuck with yourself until old age take you back to the weeds. You'll never leave you. A woman will leave you. They will feed you lies about their loyality and how they'll never leave you but ultimately all it does is make you let your guard down. They're good at what they do, it's their nature, we as men are also good at what we do. We build careers and provide whilst they raise our children. But before that happens every LTR …
/r/askTRP28/05/20 12:28 AM
1

Spending too much time around anyone is a losing situation. The only time it's truly viable is when you're a small kid growing up. I urge you to make getting away from her everyday, as much as you can, a priority. Adapt to your new environment or suffer the consequences.
/r/askTRP27/05/20 11:13 PM
3

You next her brother. Keep it moving. The pandemic is what it is. You lift heavy and eyes forward on your career goals. There will be another, or maybe your current one will return to you eventually, in the end it doesn't matter. You are the prize, treat yourself like a king and start spinning plates.
/r/askTRP27/05/20 11:10 PM
2

I think drug dealing is already risky behaviour and so drug dealers are more likely to shoot their shot with women. They're less afraid of consequences in general and so fear of rejection is alot lower. Following that they're more likely to be relaxed and funny aeound them. That's my take on it. It's all anecdotal at the end of the day.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/20 10:48 PM
6

Yes. It's like a point system. You have looks, intelligence, wealth, social status and whatever else they like. If you score extremely highly on anyone of those attributes you will be deemed attractive by women. Women will also find you attractive if you can make up for your bad looks with wealth and high social status and so on. However my point is that dating apps as a medium mainly convey information about your looks and not so much about the other attributes. Men's rating system is mainly ba…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/20 10:16 PM
3

They definitely attract women who aren't junkies and not stupid. I've been at parties were my friend from eastern europe who sells had extremely attractive med school students suck him off. He's not the only one, I've seen it happen time and time again. I had another successful friend, good looking lawyer, who had his girl cheat on him with a drug dealer. There's something about them that's attractive...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/20 06:39 PM
18

People will come up with all sorts of other compliments when the reality is that all that changed is that you're in shape now. It's why it's important to just focus on your own goals and not letting any criticism stop you. As soon as you reach your goal and become fitter/richer those same people will start to like you, it's as if a switch flipped in their brain. They'll rationalise their change in perception, telling themselves that you're 'cooler' because of xyz but in reality all that changed …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/20 05:58 PM
31

It's logical when you think about it. Men's attraction to women is very physical, it's based heavily on looks. So naturally a medium were you're presented photos of strangers will heavily favour women. Women take alot more into consideration when they're deciding if a man is attractive, his status, his money, his percieved intelligence on top of his looks. An online app isn't a good medium to convey this type of information so of course only the best looking men will have any success, because th…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/20 04:56 PM
11

Eventually pussy just becomes pussy. Fat, skinny, ugly, pretty. At some point its all the same and you stop caring.
/r/askTRP27/05/20 12:43 PM
2

Water sports Ass to mouth Choking Spitting Slapping the fuck out of her I miss feeling like I was in a porno, she was a drug. Time to sober up
/r/askTRP26/05/20 06:20 PM
1

My last dm conversation with her was after she was coming down off of MDMA and said that she felt disgusted with herself. Later that day I told her to stop trying to get emotional support from me after her slutty behaviour and to message the list of dudes that were orbiting her whilst we were still together. She said '😅 Ok don't worry about me Don't ask how I'm doing Forget about me' And I hit her with a '😎 oki doki' I knew it hit her because she changed her netflix accounts password
/r/askTRP26/05/20 03:14 PM
0

Thank you brother
/r/askTRP26/05/20 01:41 PM
9

Figure out a time and place to meet asap within the first 3 days. Men text for logistics but women text to seek attention. Disinterest is inevitable on tinder. These girls get bombarded with beta messages all day long. Your only goal is to get her to meet you in person.
/r/askTRP26/05/20 07:58 AM
1

Comethazine - Nutted Jack Harlow - whats poppin Dutchavelli - surely Poundz - Opp Thot
/r/askTRP25/05/20 09:01 PM
2

Rehab for acid lol
/r/askTRP24/05/20 10:34 PM
2

Bro what? It's fun to do. If they ask for it they're going to get it, otherwise they'll find someone who does
/r/askTRP24/05/20 10:19 PM
3

Well then you're fucked bro. You should probably just hug your pillow and cry yourself to sleep untill old age take you back to the weeds. You're stuck. You're never gonna get pussy like that again. You blew your chance with this angel queen. She's probably guzzling cum from a 6ft4 muscular Adonis Chad with an 8inch veined up penis and on the verge of orgasm without him even having to touch her as you read this. The thought of you dries her up, all she wants in this moment is to serve Adonis Cha…
/r/askTRP24/05/20 02:19 PM
1

Guys on here treating other guys like chicks. With other guys just be direct
/r/askTRP23/05/20 05:00 PM
29

She'll replace him and he'll learn the painful lesson most of us here have learned
/r/TheRedPill23/05/20 04:47 PM
3

Hahaha, I've heard the same story a million times. A guy is with/chasing a girl whose 'celibate' then finds out a few months later she sucked some no life's dick in a parking. Girls who say that do it to bathe in attention from young thirsty men who bought into the virgin angel dream. It's all a facade, a mask that they wear for clout. It's an overtuned Anti Slut Defence
/r/askTRP23/05/20 03:07 PM
8

I'd say it's easy pussy. But if you're feeling emotional about ghosting her then I wouldn't risk contacting her again because you're doomed to catch feelings again. It's not worth the emotional tax
/r/askTRP23/05/20 10:57 AM
2

My tinder bio is literally: 186cm ONS And I'm sitting on 50 matches and 170 likes
/r/askTRP23/05/20 10:45 AM
3

Listen to trap and drill music. It's all very red pilled.
/r/askTRP22/05/20 02:02 PM
1

I say be the ex that fucks her whilst she's with her next man
/r/TheRedPill17/05/20 05:30 PM
7

Hey man, I just got out of my first relationship and I'm 20. I made the same mistake. In fact I played it perfect after she cheated on me and acted like I didn't care, in my mind I didn't care I just wanted that secure supply of pussy. But then later on I fucked up and started mate guarding after she said she feels as though "I don't care enough about my future with her". I only just found out about trp this week. Man I wish I found it earlier. Now I'm on tinder trying to learn how to set up a o…
/r/TheRedPill12/05/20 04:25 PM
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