Today I want to talk to you about other women. Because frankly, I am excited about other women!

And honestly, I’m tired of hearing about the women you already know

Let’s talk about the women we’ve seen on the street. The women we have not yet met. The women who date for sport. The clingy relationship types. The sixes, sevens, eights, and nines. The good, the bad, and the ugly. Well not the ugly, but you get my point.

Everyday I see someone posting about how their EX is giving them mixed signals. Or how a plate is acting up. Lost souls looking for advice on how to handle it, fix things, win the girl back, for love or sex or whatever. Now, I’ll admit, I’ve been there before and I know what it’s like. The confusion, the stress, the anxiety is often unbearable. So you come here seeking answers. But the answers you find aren’t always the answers you want. You must evolve your mind to apply a lot of the wisdom here.

Today I see things in a much different light and you can too. I always knew other women existed outside of the focus of my sexual and emotional pursuit. But I was never excited about it. I didn’t want to find other women, I just wanted my girl back. I wanted things how they were. And that is some pussy shit that will only repulse ANY woman you’re pursuing. Truthfully, the best thing you can do to get a woman to come back around is to BACK THE FUCK OFF and pursue other women.

These poor lost souls ask questions about nexting to get these women they have lost their mojo with to behave properly.

Guys, I hope I only have to say this once.....NEXTING.... is about focusing on the NEXT girl not the previous one.

When a woman I’m seeing acts negatively towards me, it’s an open invitation to go meet some of the other women I really want to know. If my LTR stops doing all the things that got her there in the first place, well fuck yeah! She was the one who wanted the relationship in the first place. If one of those other women doesn’t seem receptive to my particular charm, fantastic! I’ve been wanting to check out some of these other other women for a while now anyway.

Anytime a woman gives me a reason to pursue other women, my eyes light up. I dread the day I meet a woman that checks all the boxes and gives me no reason to move on to other women. I never waste my time or emotional energy on unworthy women. I never have to wonder if any of them will come back. I honestly don’t even have time to because I’m too busy thinking about other women and what fun I’m going to have pursuing them.

Make your life positive. Have fun. The world is your own personal carnival. If one ride breaks, or isn’t as much fun as you had hoped, don’t get stuck worrying about fixing it and forget about all of the other awesome rides that are oiled up and ready to go.

Always remember:

Iron Rule of Tomassi #7 It is always time and effort better spent developing new, fresh, prospective women than it will ever be in attempting to reconstruct a failed relationship. Never root through the trash once the garbage has been dragged to the curb. You get messy, your neighbors see you do it, and what you thought was worth digging for is never as valuable as you thought it was.