How to deal with the fact that my ex is living a far better life?

jackrthehackr · 2021-05-16T19:44:58+00:00

Social media is a facade, remember that.

TravisScottNL · 2021-05-16T19:50:44+00:00

Social media is fake tho. I know people who are hella depressed but flexing on IG. Don’t compare yourself tho focus on you.

lolomotif12 · 2021-05-16T19:48:34+00:00

First of all remember social media is FAKE and every one is living their "best life".

Secondly, remember why you broke up with her and be grateful that she is now some other suckers problem and not yours.

Just block her and focus on your own life and make it better.

drkinferno72 · 2021-05-17T05:31:30+00:00

Don’t follow your exes for one

MusicgoonV2 · 2021-05-16T20:06:30+00:00

Bro, no one wants to post up all the bad shit that happens day to day. I had an ex that was a really bad alcoholic. I dumped her over and over. I'll be honest, they say don't dig through the trash. She was the only one I did that for. It wasn't worth it in the long run, but honestly the sex was amazing!

Anyways she would get into a relationship with a new guy, post shit all over her social media about how this was the love of her life and sing his praises. I knew her better than that. She was a mess. Toxic, mean and would drink herself retarded every day.

She would continue on social media like all was fine, then eventually send me a text asking for advice. She would push and push these guys until they got fed up. Then she would send me pictures of her with a black eye because these guys would eventually just sock her in the face. I would tell her to work on her anger issues, stop drinking and check into AA or rehab. I stopped even doing that because she would throw herself at me in person if we met alone and I would end up helping her cuck her current partner. It was toxic.

Don't believe what you read. Chances are that if she's bipolar, things are probably a mess. You dodged a bullet.

Plenty_good_stuff · 2021-05-16T23:17:42+00:00

social media is bullshit.

Cedalito · 2021-05-17T00:39:06+00:00

First of all, don't go stalk her social media, no good can come from this. If she has a bad life she won't post and if her life is good she'll post a lot. Social media is fake. It only shows the highlights.

Second, women will always have better lives than men. Everything is a lot easier for them. They can just exist and have an extremely good and successful life. This effect is even stronger if they're attractive, so don't try to compare your life with theirs.

Abadalta · 2021-05-17T01:59:14+00:00

All she will ever be worth is her pussy.

This is as good as life will ever get for her. You are a man, your worth increases exponentially based on the work you put into your life. You can attain 5 women and be called a king. The most she will ever have is one man, and he HAS to be better than her.

bosshawg502 · 2021-05-17T01:57:05+00:00

Just remember she’s probably sucking dick and taking back shots for those exotic trips and those friends will stab her in the back in a heartbeat. “Model type boyfriend” = guy she met on tinder who’s probably well off and keeps her around as a fuck toy and she’s to enamored with the lifestyle to realize it yet

BlindMaestro · 2021-05-16T19:20:41+00:00

Reblock her. Enjoy your new LTR or spin new plates. Look up how to deal with intrusive thoughts.

W_O_M_B_A_T · 2021-05-16T20:53:26+00:00

Hey guys,

I'm 21 and broke up with my ex a year ago. I believe I had all the right reasons to do so. A lot of red flags, bi-polar, need constant attention, etc.

You forgot to add being a serial liar. Your bad.

Yeah, still don't want to admit you got played by her. Which means you're still being played.

I'm not saying it's all fake. She has something going for her which is she's young, has markers of high fertility, and thus high SMV. She's free to bank on that if she so chooses, but it's not the same as having high value Technical Skills. Those Generally improve with time.

What does that say about you that you have oneitis for an obvious fake lying ho?

This may not be your fault though. You mom may have been a lying homewrecking ho too, in disguise. So the fakeness and the hoeing may feel comfortable and familiar to you and not realize all of the ways your mom lied to you.

Let me ask you something. If you were knee deep in a septic tank, shoveling human shit for somone else's benefit, would you post photos of it on instagram?

No you wouldn't, because you're not retarded.

So your oneitis isn't exactly going to be honest about hoeing and lying, not to mention the pretending she enjoys surprise sodomy on trips in foreign countries.

I cut off all contact immediately after the breakup. I really had no idea what she's been up to until now. I made the mistake of checking her Instagram

Oooops. You though social media wasn't a video game.

You though it was for real. Your bad.

clickherebaby · 2021-05-17T13:31:36+00:00

Youre just a pussy. If my ex was married and happy as hell, id be happy for her.

Not only are you a pussy, but some new girl is daing your ass. (This is how you know bitches would date a porter potty if it had a Gucci belt) move tf on. She's 21 and hot. Yes her life is only going to get better.

Interesting_Ad_8435 · 2021-05-17T14:03:43+00:00

Bro hit the gym, keep lifting, make some bank(invest, etc), and live your best life. Its only going to go up for you from here. If you make money and have a good physique you can get girls much better than the girl who your broke up with.

Alittihad01 · 2021-05-16T19:52:13+00:00

feel like I've downgraded.

mistake number two : if you wanna have exclusive bitches around , make sure you always date a better bitch after you dump the current bitch!

when you replace a 6 with your 8 , you don't enjoy the new experience and you wanna get back to her thinking "she's the one, i can never find someone like her"

mistake number 1 was believing what she wants you to believe on social media and falling into the trap , instead of constantly trying to improve your life and completely forget the bitch you left.

Title	How to deal with the fact that my ex is living a far better life?
Author	Feartones
Upvotes	7
Comments	20
Date	May 16, 2021 7:14 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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