During weekdays, I commit to a schedule where I work and lift during the day, and have my "social slot" during the evening. Notably, this helps me f-close on the first date, as the girl does not have any other thing later on.

But here's a recent phenomenon : girls suggest we have a coffee together. For me this implies that we meet during daytime. So I say that I work during the day but let's meet during the evening. Then no answer...

Am I being autistic for sticking to my evening dating slot? Or am I just filtering time wasters?