I’m so conflicted on this one. I am told to constantly be myself so that whichever chick fucks with me fucks with me for who I am. Makes sense. However, the person who I am naturally is a individual who likes to make jokes and be kind of goofy in social settings, as well as dance. I’m also very touchy and can laugh loudly when I’m really enjoying myself. But it is always stressed that a masculine frame is very important, that you should refrain from being goofy because this is a turn off to women. James Bond’s demeanor is always referenced. I’m naturally not like that but I have been practicing being calm, cool, and collected since I started TRP.

How do you guys find the balance? For example, I have a very charismatic friend who is always his authentic self, goofy as ever, speaking fast and laughing loud and exaggeratedly. He has no problem with women, he gets them in abundance. They all LOVE him. Everywhere we go, women stare. I don’t know even one chick who doesn’t find him attractive. He just finished getting some top tonight from a hot chick who’s been wanting him for like 2 years but he’s been curving her; he literally just hit her up and she came thru to the crib. I’m guessing he can afford to be goofy as ever because their physical attraction to him is high, meanwhile a guy like me who’s not as good looking has to be in a very masculine frame almost every time. I’ve been getting curved left and right the whole of this last year. It helps that he’s naturally red pilled due to dealing with so many women. It can get hard to maintain frame when I’m around people like him because I naturally want to slip into that goofy frame as well.

How would you advise I go about my demeanor?