My Polyamorous Horror Story

straightouttashtetl · 2021-05-12T02:19:01+00:00

Lmao they're always "poly" but they need to add the one penis policy because "women can't handle multiple men, but men were biologically wired to handle multiple women" crap. Every man is okay with polygamy, very few are actually okay with polyamory.

I'm sorry you ended up going through that with such a low value human being. You and the other woman are much better off.

Magnolia_Mirage · 2021-05-12T09:23:24+00:00

😬 this was a hot mess

TrixieFriganza · 2021-05-12T11:22:29+00:00

Damn sounds like total mess, personally I'm not for poly relationships because it seems extremely stressful, very easy to end up with conflicts, jellousy and misunderstandings. I could maybe see it works of everyone is at the same place and have a good, stable mental health. I don't either get this constant hunt for sex and someone better, men seem to enjoy the hunt but I just want someone to settle with and live in peace, I could never survive the stress of a poly relationship. The risk of spreading stds and infections makes me very uncomfortable too. And honestly I wouldn't trust a guy who wants a poly relationship, they usually seem to want you to follow his rules and get jellous if you find someone you like or who likes you more than him. Of course I don't have personal experiences but I have mostly heard negative things.

Lemon_bars_addiction · 2021-05-12T07:03:22+00:00

Out of genuine curiosity, why was you sleeping with other men fine (I get that it was better sex ) but you had an issue with him sleeping with the LDR woman? I ask as someone who’s against poly btw.

MajesticSkyPachyderm · 2021-05-12T11:27:56+00:00

What an ordeal. 😔 I'm so sorry you had to go through this, it must have been so terrible for your mental health. I'm glad you eventually managed to get yourself out his manipulative grip though. I hope you are doing better now. ❤

2021-05-12T13:05:03+00:00

I’m sorry but you had sex with multiple men and when he finally found a woman who wanted to have sex with him (lol) you told him not to? I’m glad you grew from this situation and agree poly relationships can be really damaging.

Every poly relationship I’ve seen ultimately ended in divorce and involved selfish and entitled partners.

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Title	My Polyamorous Horror Story
Author	vanillakitteh
Upvotes	79
Comments	17
Date	May 11, 2021 6:00 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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