19M, can't get any sex because of bad asymmetric face, is it still fun when you're older?

Officer_Dick_Johnson · 2016-10-10T10:35:12+00:00

I had weird issues and a weak/timid personality growing up. Never got exposure to girls, or people in general. Now in college I feel that this lack of experience is taking a toll

This is the problem, not your face. Your face is just an excuse (an anchor for your negative state).

AlfredApple · 2016-10-10T08:11:46+00:00

It's so much better (30+)

AceBenedict23 · 2016-10-10T08:16:01+00:00

I think you should control what you can control at the present time. Don't let the current time go to waste. You will regret it later, trust me.

Rorta · 2016-10-10T10:04:25+00:00

You aren't getting laid because of your face its something you're doing. When I've been fat as fuck I've still got laid. You just need some game and a niche of chicks who dig you.

W_O_M_B_A_T · 2016-10-10T13:19:00+00:00

OK.

Let us know when you're done whining,

Are you ready to hit the gym and get bulked, and stop making excuses?

Let us know when you're ready to approach women, mess around with them, and get them to qualify themselves to you.

TheRedStoic · 2016-10-10T14:10:43+00:00

Look. All problems in love come down to three options

You can't change it. (Don't worry) this would be your face

You can change it (don't worry) this would be your economic position, your habits, hobbies, your approach and game experience, etc. (So practice those daily)

You can but don't want to change it. (So leave it be and own that shit.)

So apply that and stop being worried. Based on what you've said, you won't be getting facial plastic or reconstruction for a while, you can't change it now so don't worry about that.

Focus your time on what you can change. You can lift, meditate, join meetup and build great hobbies and adventures, approach every day, etc. Do that. Experience and immersion trump's all else. Force yourself, daily, to post the boundaries of what you have control over. You'll be fine.

NICOLAWRITES · 2016-10-10T15:33:13+00:00

Don't wait to make things better. Work on yourself now and it will pay dividends. Up your SMV. Lift, eat properly and socialize. Work on those points.

Snooze212 · 2016-10-10T21:27:20+00:00

You have to be constantly improving EVERY area of your life, little by little. I don't agree with people totally waiting for this 'perfect moment'. "Oh when I get shredded I'll be ready" or "When I get plastic surgery I'll be ready" or "Next year I'll be ready". FACK DAT SHEEEIIITTT. Start improving every aspect right now. Quit anything that is wasting time, and I mean ANYTHING (porn, vidya games, movies, youtube, reddit, the internet itself). And just focus on gainz, game, career, and you'll have de best sex in de world breh. Doesn't matter about your face, women love ugly guys anyway!

adam_varg · 2016-10-10T22:07:56+00:00

You can have as young and hot woman/girls as you want until you die if you are attractive.

It gets much much easiercas you age if you have your shit together and are attractive.

If you dont have attractive face you need to have rest top notch if you wanna pull like. Money, body, charms, status all take years and years to get on top tier. So make all of that priority. Especially social skills since you have yearsxof handicap.

Title	19M, can't get any sex because of bad asymmetric face, is it still fun when you're older?
Author	ClassIVLaser
Upvotes	1
Comments	14
Date	October 10, 2016 8:07 AM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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