I recently saw a post here where the poster asked us how do you rate your partner and what you want from him. And I saw a lot of other commenters gave much importance to the dick size of the man.

Now simultaneously, we see how the East Asian Boybands from Korea and to much less extent Japan are very popular in the West with them selling out stadium tours, arenas, merchandises in a much larger manner than older white Boybands and other teen idols ever did. Kdramas and Jdramas and their actors are also very popular and very coveted among the girls around the world.

Now, I am a fan of these content and actors and do think they are good looking than your average men. But the moment I really think about sex I end up realising that these men are not likely to be good in bed. They are more likely to have small penis, and I don't really care about body on long run and give more preference to face. But even then, I will swear I have met more objectively handsome Caucasoid men in India(from where I am) and I do think Asian men are likely to be more bigoted and hostile to me on a personality basis as well(interacted with them earlier and have an idea how the cultures work). So I don't get why women are so invested in these men when they are not even very attractive and they are faking their behaviour anyways....

I will say this even in case of White boybands and teen idols- none of the male teen idols I have seen are objectively hot and borderline ugly so never I got why girls went crazy for them (and it is not that I am not attracted to men). Given that these men have rotational harems anyways and are assholes, why will I fuck Jungkook/Harry Styles when I can easily fuck a David Gandy in an ideal situation?