I've tried tinder, did some cold approach, got good friends and I do interesting stuff with them but it's been years since any attraction has been reciprocated.

I'm pasty white and bald with a bad head shape - I look like an upside down pear.

I don't want to have to just settle for quite literally any girl who will sleep with me, but I can't really see any alternative. I work hard, workout hard and do interesting things with my life but none of that seems to make any difference. I don't want to be just a beta provider who gets a crumb of pussy every now and then from a resentful alpha widow, I want to be someone the girls actually want to sleep with, so I wake up every morning with that ideal in mind and work towards it, but nothing ever changes. Girls just don't like a young guy who's lost his hair.

Feeling pretty hopeless out here fellas, what can I do to change this? Its killing me by a thousand cuts.