Why are so many Pre wall Women seeking commitment for a future relationship

ibwriting · 2021-03-13T19:18:33+00:00

Well they show their cards, women get married for a variety of different reasons.

Women get into relationships for a variety of different reasons.

Those girls are showing their hand, in face of necessity they wise up.

Not every single bitch wants 10000 dicks, not every bitch wants 10.

You gotta work on game they're showing you want they want as a buyer, everybody needs something. Though at what cost is it to you?

Sufficient_Memory_82 · 2021-03-13T19:31:20+00:00

24 is already wall stage. Why are you letting them lead the conversation this way? First dates are coffee dates to establish that the other person is not socially inept, talk about boring mundane shit and establish kino to get them to commit to coming to your place for sex.

Use other lines, imply the commitment, never say it verbally, get them to qualify to you why they are worthy of a relationship. If guys dont want a relationship with them ask them why? Flip it on them to qualify.

There is no space for defining the relationship within the first 60 minutes of a date, you're not negotiating a contract. Plate younger if you can't handle the frame control, the younger they are the easier, they are in lowering their inhibitions.

DerekMorganBAU · 2021-03-13T22:05:31+00:00

Just lie.

Tell them what they want to hear. It's called "boyfriend game" and it works wonders. Give them the boyfriend experience that ends with you getting some pussy then gradually pull back.

PiperBigBell · 2021-03-13T22:51:12+00:00

This is a very easy bypass. What you have to do with women who are trying to portray themselves as "relationship minded" is have an open conversation about your relationship values. But don't talk about it as if you're looking for it from them. Because how could you? You don't know them.

Talk about qualities you like in a woman, your past relationships (never frame yourself negatively), relationship qualities, etc. Also, what I like to do is tell them why I'm single (they usually ask why). I tell them that I'm very picky, have high standards, and a strict vetting process that I can't go weak on.

I say that most women don't match up. Ultimately when you have a girl trying to get in your face about a relationship it's because you're putting off boyfriend energy instead of casual, fun energy. You're not being fun and sexual enough.

To summarise. Never qualify, but explain that you're high value using scripts like the one i just mentioned. If they continue to pick at it, I'll discuss high value traits that I look for. Never. Qualify. But instead disqualify. Really you should be proactive in this. Never let them trap you.

Understand?

Ensifror · 2021-03-13T21:25:47+00:00

Most girls always want to be in a relationship. Even if they have no intention of that relationship ending in marriage (they view marriage as an end, and not a more advanced stage). I've had women tell me about previous relationships that lasted 5+ years, which they stayed in just to have a boyfriend, all the while knowing she would not ever marry that man.

Its sort of a "home base" kind of deal for them. Gives them a sense security. And since most of them cheat (on an emotional level, if not physical), it's a win win for them.

Usually, these women start dumping (or don't bother dumping and just cheat) their boyfriends to find the "man of their dreams" around 27-30. Then they settle for a lesser man around 33-37 when they start to realize prince charming doesn't exist and their eggs are drying.

Occasionally you might also find a woman who genuinely wants to settle down earlier. Be that caused by religious beliefs, upbringing or whatever. I'm not quite sure what to think about these ones, but they're definitely not the norm.

midgetpooooo · 2021-03-14T05:14:28+00:00

Just don't answer. Keep asking them to talk. "So what do you want?" "What was your last relationship like?" Etc. Let them talk and they'll feel closer to you for revealnng such intimate things. Essentially dodge it because answering it this early on with a chick you don't even know or give a shit about is putting you in their frame. Keep your frame going to not clearly answer her relationship shit test.

zerofeetpersecond · 2021-03-15T14:24:04+00:00

A women who casually fucks your at that age is setting her money on fire. 24-26 is wife material, plenty of 35 year old dudes way more interesting than you will lock them down.

kdsflyfree · 2021-03-13T20:10:45+00:00

COVID.

Musicgoon · 2021-03-13T19:52:31+00:00

Women are the gatekeepers of sex. Men are the gatekeepers of commitment.

Title	Why are so many Pre wall Women seeking commitment for a future relationship
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Date	March 13, 2021 7:10 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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