Even if an ltr is good, in what cases would you still end it?

Good_Comedian_32 · 2021-05-31T23:42:08+00:00

If you're happy and fulfilled no need to question it. If she's holding you back from your goals or takes up too much time or not fulfilling you sexually or emotionally or whatever the fuck you desire then end it. Only you know what you desire out of a relationship

319Skew · 2021-06-01T00:32:49+00:00

You don't have to be in a relationship. If you want out. Then get out.

New_Guard · 2021-06-01T00:52:52+00:00

Well, the only variables you leave are one's individual desire for novelty vs. desire for continued companionship.

But the question isn't really fair, because there is no woman who is 100% green flags and no drama. Women are the source of drama in every man's life. In some senses, that's their function. Also, over time, they always become more entitled and give you less in return. So your real question should be more along the lines of "how much less good does it have to get with a woman vs. when you first started dating her before you consider leaving her." And that's the relevant question you should always be asking, because deep down in their programming, that's the calculation that every woman is performing too, to determine how much bullshit they can pile onto you without risking their station. Fundamentally, the guys over at married red pill are learning how to communicate with that element of women's programming to set boundaries and make her realize that she can't get away with as much bad behavior anymore.

gbizzle2 · 2021-05-31T23:05:52+00:00

Just be 100% authentic. Tell her shes a good girl but you just want some space / time to yourself to focus on elevating.

kclanton80 · 2021-06-01T21:59:46+00:00

You have a different Outlook on life and want different things out of life. She is unwilling to fall under your leadership and adapt to your point of view.

onrappel · 2021-05-31T23:21:31+00:00

Assuming you’ve vetted properly, it just comes down to crossing boundaries. Draw your lines early, and if she crosses them we’re done. Even if she is apologetic and puts on her unicorn costume. It’s not about “what situation” it’s about whether she crosses even the smallest boundary you set.

Title	Even if an ltr is good, in what cases would you still end it?
Author	tag2man
Upvotes	5
Comments	8
Date	May 31, 2021 10:13 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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