Girl from hinge wants me to come to her and her friend’s get together tonight.

ibwriting · 2021-05-30T02:54:57+00:00

I’ve met with her once and she has high interest in me, how should I go about acting at the party?

Cool why are you on reddit?

how should I go about acting at the party? I can’t be talking to lots of other girls can I?

Since you want permission I give you the red pill didlo card, please put it in your lander. Also be sure to not be a moron and enjoy your time.

ecause her friends will see that and judge me for not mostly focusing on the girl who invited me.

Wow a chance to be social and you're still caring about what people would think of you when you don't even know who the fuck they are.

Hey dude, get off reddit. Go have some fun.

PrincepsFerrous · 2021-05-30T02:28:16+00:00

Really boils down to two avenues of approach:

1) Go out with them, chat the group of girls, flirt with them and maybe get your girl to get a bit anxious with competition or get their approval.

2) Decline and setup another meetup with just the two of you.

Depends on your style. Be the man. Lead with what you want. If you don't want to do 1, then do 2.

Kitamkittu · 2021-05-30T03:58:18+00:00

You can talk to other chicks she might be busy herself. These sort of things usually backfire. Once I went to a party like that the girl met me once and said help yourself and disappeared for hours. I then instead hung around other folks and ended up taking some other girl home that night 😂

AlphaBetaSigmaDelta · 2021-05-30T03:22:56+00:00

How is it not obvious that you must next her?

btt069 · 2021-05-30T07:15:31+00:00

I mean, if you play your cards right, you know what I mean.
Why so scared? Enjoy the fucking party.

Inertia_Override · 2021-05-30T08:15:54+00:00

Definitely 100% talk to and flirt with all the other girls. You literally think the opposite of what you should be doing. Girls want a challenge, they want a guy that’s already taken, they want a guy that their friends want, they wanna be the one who got that dude all the other girls were trying to get. Then guess what? Their friends or the other girls at the party are gonna want to take you from her. And it just gets easier and easier until you fucked everyone that was at the party.

wanker7171 · 2021-05-30T08:32:51+00:00

I can’t be talking to lots of other girls can I?

Why not? You aren't going on a date where the friends are random bar patrons

Because her friends will see that and judge me for not mostly focusing on the girl who invited me.

Don't try to control people's perceptions of you, half the time it doesn't work, all the time it's low status as fuck.

Title	Girl from hinge wants me to come to her and her friend’s get together tonight.
Author	ISCOREDwithISCO
Upvotes	3
Comments	15
Date	May 30, 2021 2:23 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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