Is it weak/beta to feel scared of marriage even though the marriage laws in my country are pro men?

Intrepid_Artist · 2021-05-14T10:59:05+00:00

I am married and always tell to male friends who aren't this. Marriage isn't goal, it is a side product.

If you met a decent person, and you feel good around her, go for marrige only when two of you want children.

Who will be mother of your children is the most import life decision. The most. This person will stay in your life forever. She will pass genetic material to your kids.

Having kids & marriage is a lot of responsibility. It's not always easy.

If you will stress about it, just postpone

red__Man · 2021-05-14T06:51:30+00:00

it's more about the woman herself than it is about the laws, but it's obviously safer when the laws are in your favour

MusicgoonV2 · 2021-05-14T09:14:39+00:00

Why are you even thinking about marriage when it sounds like you don't want it?

I don't want a professional boxer to punch me in the balls and therefore, I don't bother to think about it. I also wouldn't put myself in situations where that could happen.

NoFaithInThisSub · 2021-05-14T12:34:25+00:00

How 3rd world are we talking?

adam-l · 2021-05-14T10:50:07+00:00

Marriage is stupid. All around the world. Especially since you have no need for kids, which is the healthiest stance a man can have imo.

Stay single, keep raising your SMV, and you'll do fine with spinning plates and mini LTRs at least until your late 50s.

Shipbldr2000 · 2021-05-14T10:29:49+00:00

There is nothing wrong with recongnizing that you do not want to do something. It might be as simple as knowing you are not ready. Take several years to think about it. Don't jump into a mistake.

BlondeHornyElf · 2021-05-14T12:29:40+00:00

not weird... even under patriarchal societies families had to pay the suitor male to marry their daughters becuz everyone understood that marriage meant a significant reduction in freedoms and increase in obligations for a man.

what you're feeling is normal but it might change as you get older and feel more pressure to build a family of your own. don't compare your sensible laws and feelings to the misery and insanity of western "culture".

CrimsonBottle · 2021-05-14T15:28:58+00:00

It’s a good thing to asking questions such as this to yourself, it shows you’re careful and not wanting to make a mistake which you might regret in future.

papunigga031 · 2021-05-14T22:34:47+00:00

Why would you want to get married?

Fogcloud2 · 2021-05-14T11:10:34+00:00

it’s beta to be scared of anything bro, that shit weak. Be the Alpha.

Title	Is it weak/beta to feel scared of marriage even though the marriage laws in my country are pro men?
Author	Nine_Fingers
Upvotes	11
Comments	12
Date	May 14, 2021 6:15 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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