Very reliable girl but she never initiates us meeting?

Spirited-Foot · 2021-04-08T11:40:58+00:00

With 6mo time now, the tide is probably set. Get more plates and learn to screen for genuine desire.

Honestly I don’t care if plates initiate or not. I go ghost for a few days and then set a F date. Do you think Chad cares who initiates??? The reason you are asking this is because you are looking for validation from your plate and feel insecure in your frame.

kclanton80 · 2021-04-08T16:23:22+00:00

How often do you see her? If you're very consistent in hitting her up and setting up plans... She has no need to initiate.

If it's that pressing to you that she initiate take some time off from seeing her and wait until she contacts you first.

I don't see any issue here. A king summons his concubine when he's ready. The concubine waits until summoned.

As long as she doesn't flake and always makes herself available... this is an ideal situation.

This is your ego driving you crazy. Thinking of the girl who shows up to fuck you on command is not desiring you enough.

You want sex right? You're getting sex right? All seems good to me. The best part is you don't have to make up excuses about being busy when you're with other plates... Because she's waiting for you.

It's perfect.

YeeYeeAssHaircut915 · 2021-04-08T13:59:43+00:00

Some guys prefer it this way. I do. It means she's 100% revolving around your schedule.

It's a bit annoying when plates start inviting you to places you don't really want to go to and you have to reject her, giving off that "I only want you for sex" vibe, which isn't bad if that's your genuine intention, but I personally like a sprinkle of emotion in my relationships.

A few years back an old plate randomly invited me to a friends birthday party, and said if I could pretend to be her boyfriend but to not ask why. It was so ridiculous, and at the time I was trying to be more "edgy", so I went along. It was as stupid as it sounded and it made me start dreading plates inviting me to shit.

But you really shouldn't complain about having some ass on speed dial, or at the snap of your fingers.

Islandman598 · 2021-04-08T10:52:14+00:00

She has passive interest in you, at this point. Girls who have been hot for me in the past, always check up. At the beginning it’s normal for her to be passively interested but after 6 months she should be trying to monopolize your time at a point where the question would be “plate wants LTR ect” or a range of other things interested girls tend to do.

Date girls who have high interest.

notaselfdrivingcar · 2021-04-08T11:24:13+00:00

How do I get her to initiate?

You Do other activities, go with other people and she will ask to meet.

soltanparham · 2021-04-08T11:43:03+00:00

Been in the same situation with many girls and all them were older than me

It’s the stupid game played by many girls, the first reason is she’s not that interested, you think she is but she isn’t! She just doesn’t have better options, second , it’s cause she thinks you’re not a busy guy . Don’t call her out, don’t send message, let her do the job. Act more busy

Title	Very reliable girl but she never initiates us meeting?
Author	__Lord_of_Light__
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Date	April 8, 2021 10:27 AM UTC (5 years ago)
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