Hey brothers, so I posted here about a month ago with my life being at complete rock bottom. Since then I’ve been sober for over a month now, attending AA meetings, meditating, doing yoga and just generally getting healthy. Been rediscovering my masculinity and setting boundaries around my toxic family.

I wanted to say that I’m really appreciative and grateful for the advice that was given to me, for those who reached out, and for this community in general.

I also have a question. I have a narcissistic , toxic sister. She has caused a lot of damage in my life. I’ve had a real hard time standing up to her and her abuse. My therapist and I have talked about doing a joint session with her. It would be a good opportunity to unload a lot of the shit she has put on me and good opportunity to speak my truth.

I am conflicted though, as to whether I actually want to go through with it, or if it is just gonna be a waste of my time and resources. Judging from her past behaviour, she will deny, deflect, diminish and disrespect anything I have to say, aka gaslight me. I’m pretty fed up with therapy anyway, it’s just a bunch of bullshit diminishing my masculinity. Any advice regarding this would be appreciated, thanks.