Lately on dates I have been getting turned down by girls when trying to get sexual. I feel like something about my vibe or approach isn't creating the right type of sexual attraction from girls. My apologies for sounding like an arrogant douche, but I know it's not lack of physical attraction because I am tall and muscular and have an attractive face (as told by girls that have hooked up with me). I make them laugh and have been told several times that I am fun on dates. I can build a connection with a girl pretty easily and find the right angle to have meaningful conversations with them. I also try to physically escalate and build physical attraction by touching them and complimenting them. However, despite all this, I have been getting turned down fairly frequently when trying to get sexual upon isolating with girls, and they will tell me "maybe next time" or "I want to see you again".

Any idea what the issue is? I have a hunch that girls think that I hook up with a lot of girls and are not trying to be "easy" with me. Is that a thing?

Or maybe there is something about my vibe that makes girls want to make me their boyfriend instead of just a pump and dump?

Any experiment I can do or something to find out? I'm just trying to get laid like the rest of you lol.