LTR pissed I left her

clint_bronson · 2016-12-14T22:14:10+00:00

If a girl threatens to break up with you, you break up with here, on the spot. Don't date women who don't respect you.

VasiliyZaitzev · 2016-12-14T22:13:42+00:00

"if you ever talk to me like that again you'll be single so damn fast"

Reply: "I'm single now."

Then ghost her. NFW should she be giving you ultimatums.

ShamwowTseDung · 2016-12-14T22:29:52+00:00

she just said, "if you ever talk to me like that again you'll be single so damn fast"

She's assuming that she's the best thing you've got going for yourself right now.

In regards to her x-mas text, I would not communicate with her until after break. But that's my style.

She will try to get in touch, just to make sure you still think you're nothing without her.

On the small chance that she doesn't, that may be a sign you might want to leave her.

At the end of the day, this is happening over a very minor and meaningless situation. Act as if it never happened and continue being that charming, yet smarmy asshole she wanted to be with in the first place.

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Then again, I browsed your posts and methinks you might want to reconsider your relationship, if that is indeed the same girl in all your posts. Just ask yourself if the problems are worth the relationship*, and if you think you can find someone who will treat you more in the ways that you would want to be treated.

*Problems in the relationship are normal. Two different people will bump heads over things (like who pays for dinner) every now and then.

But there are some situations that no one should accept into their lives, if they want to be happy. This was written for someone like you. Think about what you will and will not tolerate from anyone, then go out and learn.

Good luck

fnordsnord · 2016-12-14T21:42:08+00:00

What is the result you want?

mewtwokillsarceus · 2016-12-14T21:38:00+00:00

Are you her bitch or is she yours?

failingtheturingtest · 2016-12-15T04:33:09+00:00

You got pissy as well. You need to ensure you aren't doing that.

LordThunderbolt · 2016-12-15T06:02:09+00:00

She just gave you an ultimatum and implied that you have no other options besides her as a woman and tat she's doing u a favor by being with you. In other words she doesn't respect you and views you as beneath her. She doesn't believe u have balls.

Want to know what to do? Go radio silent for 3 days, then call her up to meet up urgently. Meet up and tell her that this relationship isn't good enough for your needs. Wish her the best of luck, then bounce. Delete her from all social media and go no contact. Sooner or later she'll crawl back to you, that's when you tell you'll give her another chance to prove herself. Plate her and let her believe she has a chance still. Approach other girls, lift, and become a better you. This girl is a lost cause, she can only be a plate.

Iguessthisismynameno · 2016-12-15T06:19:21+00:00

Grow some balls mate

youcantdenythat · 2016-12-15T14:46:47+00:00

I've seen this many times. She has lost attraction for you and is looking for reasons to make it your fault. You can not fix this. Start finding new girls now!

deadwoodcylon · 2016-12-15T01:03:36+00:00

Dump her and never talk to her again. Never tolerate disrespect.

Title	LTR pissed I left her
Author	Maverick14
Upvotes	6
Comments	21
Date	December 14, 2016 9:22 PM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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